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RITES AND TRADITIONS ON IVAN KUPALA

July 5, 2017 by

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As you already know Ukraine is rich on various rites and traditions. Ivan Kupala is one of the upcoming national holidays of the summer circle. Many Ukrainian ladies gladly celebrate it nowadays. I would like to tell you about its customs to make you more aware about the history of Ukraine.

Background of the holiday

Due to its pagan background, the holiday of Ivan Kupala glorifies the three elements: fire, water and herbs. With their help you can either drive away evil spirits or attract them. It is important to carry out ceremonies and follow the Kupala traditions correctly.

Bonfires on Ivan Kupala

The tradition of burning a fire at night on Ivan Kupala from July 6th to 7th reaches its roots the pagan past. The fire itself represented the summer solstice. The day became shorter after June, 21 and this was a good opportunity for dark forces to show themselves. To drive away all sorts of demons people went out to mass festivals around the campfires. In order to provide a night entertainment, the village boys set fire in the barrels and rolled them into the river from the high bank.

Magic of a bonfire

The bonfires were used not only for warming up, but also for carrying jump competitions. The higher a person jumps above all the bonfires the happier he will be. Loving couples used to jump holding hands over the fading fire. If their hands split up the couple wasn’t about to stay together long. But if they held tight – their destiny was to love each other for many years ahead.

Another usage of fire was healing. People believed that if the clothes of a sick person were burned on the holiday night the person would soon recover.

Water on Ivan Kupala

Many Ivan Kupala traditions are connected with water. On July, 7 Christians also mark the birthday of John the Forerunner, who baptized Jesus in Jordan. Therefore, people believe that from this day on bathing in open water becomes safe. The evil is believed to be expelled from the rivers and lakes.

In addition to healing bathing, it is possible to heal the body and soul by washing with the morning dew. Young Ukrainian ladies are believed to become even more beautiful. In the evening Ukrainian ladies set the wreaths onto the water for divination. This tradition repeats the divination performed on Trinity day.

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Herbs on Ivan Kupala

On Ivan Kupala herbs and flowers acquired special healing powers. That is why Ukrainian women harvested them, dried and used them throughout the year for treatment and protection against malice.

The most important plant of the day is a fern. As the legend says ferns can bloom for a few seconds on Kupala night. If a man sees this miracle, he must tear the flower and escape from the forest fleeing from evil spirits. Successful escape from evil spirits can give a person superhuman powers. A person may learn to understand plants’ and animals’ language as well as be able to easily find any treasures.

What cannot be done on Ivan Kupala?

Ivan Kupala wakes up all the evil spirits of the forest, so you should not sleep this night. In addition to this there are some other prohibitions. On the night of July 6th to 7th pregnant Ukrainian women, children and the elderly should stay away from the water. Evil water spirits (like mermaids) can bring harm to the weakened bodies of these people.

To ensure that the family will not impoverish it is better for its members not to give, sell or borrow anything on Ivan Kupala day. Moreover, if a person finds money on the road – even a big sum – he should by no means take it.

Women that celebrate Ivan Kupala must visit the evening bonfire. They say that only witches avoid doing this.

Russian ladies also celebrate Ivan Kupala

Ukraine is not the only country keeping the ancient traditions of Slavic ancestors. Russian women, especially those living in villages also celebrate Ivan Kupala or Kupala night. Traditions of the holiday are the same as the Ukrainian ladies keep. Some women dress in traditional clothing and floral wreaths and take part in the night gaiety.

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Knowing rich Slavic traditions can help you break the ice in your conversation with a Ukrainian lady. Just greet her on the day and ask her whether her relatives told her about the family members taking part in such events. You will have an opportunity to hear a very exciting story or tell the lady about the day if she has never heard of it 🙂

 

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Unconventional First Date Ideas for the Modern Woman

July 5, 2017 by
Unconventional First Date Ideas

The ultimate goal of going out on a date is to be able to bond and have a good conversation, but sometimes, this is a make or break event. Why? It is because it is on your first date that you decide whether you would want to continue seeing this person or not, and vice versa. However, the most important thing you need to remember is that you should have fun and make out of your first date to get to know each other better.

Gone are the days when first dates are limited to dinner dates at fancy restaurants. If you want to make it more exciting, don’t be afraid to think outside the box and explore other creative options to make your first date memorable and worthwhile.

Here are some of the unconventional first date ideas you can consider.

1. Visit a flea market

This one might not really sound like a typical first date, but this could work well for modern women. Girls love to shop and they appreciate it when guys can patiently go with them while getting some shopping in. Just make sure that you invite your date to a flea market where there are a lot of activities. Remember that your date should never be boring so choose places where you can have food and drinks right after shopping.

2. Visit an art gallery

An art gallery is an excellent place for you to have a real good conversation for discovering each other’s interests. Art galleries are usually quiet places, so this is a good chance for you to also test your conversational skills. However, you also have to be careful when selecting an art gallery. Choose the one where you think you won’t be too uncomfortable to talk about anything. There are also a lot of fun and exciting photo exhibits and galleries you can explore.

3. Catch some views

First dates are extra romantic if you do it in a place where you can enjoy a nice, scenic view. It can be a nearby park with the view of the mountains or bay walk where you can watch the sun go down.

4. Attending a concert

While a concert is really a great idea especially for two people who both love music, you might want to grab something first before heading to the concert so you can still get the chance to sit down and talk. It is important to get to know each other first over a meal or drinks before hitting the event so that you will feel more comfortable around each other’s company.

5. Visit a tea room

This idea is an excellent alternative for having coffee in cafes. If you both enjoy herbal blends, visiting a tea room can be perfect in making both of you feel relaxed. You can have a good and light conversation while you take in a soothing atmosphere.

6. Go to the beach

The beach still remains to be one of the nicest places to be in when it comes to first dates. If there is not a beach nearby, you can probably visit a nearby lake. A day out in front of the waters is always perfect for relaxing while sitting down, enjoying the sun, as well as each other’s company. It could even be more perfect if the weather play along. And then, you can take a romantic stroll along the shore when the sun sets.

7. Go to a carnival

This may sound so cliché for some but bringing back your inner child and going to a carnival could make your date even more fun. Riding the Ferris wheel, playing some games and trying to win the prize, indulging in popcorns and cotton candy – these things still never grow old. And who says you’re too old to do it? This is just one great way to know each other while you are having fun. Aside from food, another effective way to connect to each other is through laughter, and this is one great place for both of you to have a good laugh. At the end of the day, you won’t even be able to tell you actually spent your day with a stranger because you are connected instantly.

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Fun New Feature to Help Find Your Ukrainian Bride

July 4, 2017 by

We have just added a new feature to the site to help you find your Ukraine woman much easier. It is clever and fun and I am sure you will enjoy it.

We have added a section to your dashboard called Suggested Members:

These are Ukraine ladies that are generated from the list of ladies that you have favourited (you must have at least 5 ladies favourited to enjoy this feature). The site will search the attributes of your favourited ladies and will select other ladies who have similar attributes.

These attributes are based on:

  • Age
  • Physical Attributes (height, hair colour, eye colour)
  • English Level
  • Has Children
  • Desires More Children

The system will search our database of women and suggest to you Ukrainan ladies that are a close match to those whom you have favourited.

The neat thing is, and this is where it is fun, you can adjust the attributes by clicking the Improve These Suggestions link and you can move the sliders for each attribute to give them greater or lesser importance, refine your search and show a new list of suggested ladies. If you think some attributes are more important to you, just move the slider – simple!

We hope you enjoy the new feature and that it helps you find your special lady.

However, this feature is not matchmaking, but merely suggestions based on who you have favourited. If you want our help to match-make for you, please contact us and we will be delighted to assist. We offer a free matchmaking service and also a more intensive matchmaking service and we will look forward to helping you to find love and happiness. This new feature is a great way to narrow your search and our matchmaking can help refine the list to that really special Ukraine Lady.

We are available 24/7 and look forward to talking with you.

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Why you need to Pursue the Love that you Want

July 3, 2017 by
Pursue the Love that you Want

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, simply because nobody’s perfect. There will always be a lot of things to fight about, to argue about because no two people are the same. The differences, imperfections and the flaws of the two people involved in the relationship are the things that will naturally cause the trouble every now and then, but that is perfectly normal. While love and relationships are indeed challenging, there are also a number of beautiful reasons why they are worthwhile.

Here are a few important reasons why you need to pursue that kind of love that you want

1. Falling in love is not something that happens every single day

If you are a believer of soulmates, then you must know that meeting them is not something that you can just take for granted. We will never know who the right person is for us until we decide and begin to risk. The danger of staying on the safe side and not risking is the fact that you might lose that single chance at love and you might not be given the same chance again.

2. It is difficult to live life with regrets

Life is too short to live it with regrets, so do not be afraid to take risks and take chances. It is better that you risk and find out, than choose to play safe and live the rest of your life trying to think about the “what if’s”, or the “what might have been’s” and the “what could have been’s”, especially when you know you had a choice.

3. Love is worth fighting for

There are a few things in this world that are worth fighting for and one of them is love. Misunderstandings and arguments are natural and that is because of each and every person’s indifferences, imperfections and because no two people are the same. But at the end of the day, it only loves that can surpass all of these things, and it is only love that could make you want to go back to the same person no matter how messy things can be because you don’t see yourself being with anybody else anymore.

4. It makes you feel alive

No matter how difficult and risky love is, it is one of the most beautiful things that can make you feel alive. It is a life-changing experience that gives several rewards. The possibility of pain and getting hurt are always there, and there is no guarantee that you won’t get hurt, but even if you do, the experience will let you grow as a person. There will be a lot of life lessons that will enrich your soul. Your life will be so much more fulfilled in meaningful ways than you have ever imagined.

5. You are human and you are allowed to make mistakes

This means that you are not expected to make all the right decisions all the time. After all, what makes us human are our imperfections, and it is perfectly okay to commit mistakes at times because we will never know if it’s wrong or right until you’ve had the chance to be there. Just learn how to forgive yourself no matter what happens. Who knows, this chance could be what you are waiting for so you can finally be happy. But whether you succeed or fail, the things you learn along the way will always be a part of your most valuable life lessons.

6. Life goes on

Whatever you go through in life and in love will never last, whether it is good or bad because nothing is permanent in this world. If good and happy times do not last forever, the bad times will not last either. It does not mean though that you cannot live a happy life with someone, the thing is that ups and downs are always going to be there. And whatever it is that you go through today will not matter tomorrow anymore or next day, or next month or next year.

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Shardorn from Switzerland meets his Ukrainian Lady – June 2017

July 2, 2017 by

Last week we had a visitor in our office, Shardorn from Switzerland who was visiting his Ukrainian lady.

Shardorn has been using Ukraine Brides for less than two months and had visited his Ukrainian lady, after which he called in to meet the team.

When talking with Shardorn, it was great to see that once he had joined the site, he immediately used our site and services just as we propose to all our members through our regular newsletters to members and blog articles – refer https://www.ukrainebridesagency.com/blog/10-ukrainian-dating-success-tips . This includes:

  • Talking to the team via the free personal consultation to see what services we offer, what are our prices and how we can help
  • Knowing, in his own mind, what type of Ukraine woman he is searching for, before he looks at the ladies galleries
  • Reading each ladies profile to determine compatibility and inner beauty
  • Messaging the lady a number of times to determine chemistry
  • Video chatting with the lady to confirm the chemistry
  • Arranging his trip to meet the lady utilising our services and expertise

We were delighted that Shardorn agreed to be interviewed on video so he could share his experience with our members. Sadly, too few members agree to do video interviews. When you listen to Shardorn you can share his knowledge and experience – in fact, we could not have said it better ourselves. If you are searching for your Ukraine women or Russian Bride you will find Shardorn’s advice valuable. We take pride with the level of service that we provide to our members and we are delighted that this comes through strongly in the interview.

Enjoy the interview with Shardorn and take his advice when using online dating and you are more likely to find the love and happiness that you seek

Please contact us at any time if we can assist you. We are available 24/7 and are delighted to help

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Romantic Gestures that will make any Woman’s Heart Melt

June 30, 2017 by

Most women dream of falling in love with a guy who can sweep them off their feet; someone whom they can fall head over heels in love with; and someone who is hopeless romantic. However, when girls get to see all these things in a guy, they have the tendency to keep their defenses high because fear overtakes and they start to doubt the intentions of the guy.

So what really are the things that can make any woman’s heart melt? Here are some of the things that guys need to know in order to break the walls and make a girl’s knees weak.

1. Sweet text messages

For many girls, there is no better way to start a day than by getting a romantic text message from their guy. It does not have to be a long message of love, but when guys send them a simple good morning greeting, they have the power to draw a beautiful smile on a girl’s face right away. It is because this gesture only shows that your very first thought is about her and that’s true romance for them.

2. Surprise snacks

Girls love it when they are being surprised, especially when it is their favorite food. Surprises do not only have to be limited to flowers and chocolates because in fact, many girls appreciate it a lot when a guy brings them their favorite snack or comfort food when days are bad and when they are not feeling well. This means that you have to pay attention to the things that make her happy and bring them to her on just any random day. Gestures like this does not require any occasion. The more it is spontaneous and unexpected, the more it will be appreciated.

3. Leave her a love note

Who says love notes and letters are old school? The never are and never will be, even in this world of technology, text messages, chat apps and social media. Some good things will still never die. It won’t take so much of your time to write a simple note even just a reminder that you love them, then leave these notes in places where they can be easily seen.

4. Be a gentleman

Being a gentleman is a very simple gesture but it can mean so much. This means that you care enough about your girl and you are taking really good care of her. Even if your girl is independent, strong and self—reliant, and they may not show it to you but deep inside, they want to feel like a little child and a princess being protected and cared for.

5. Make date plans

Another romantic gesture that girls appreciate is when guys plans for a date, and there is nothing you really have to do but simply to be there. One of the reasons why couples fight is because they can hardly decide about where to go and what to do when they go out on a date. But if you can manage to get everything covered, you are really on your way to making your girl’s heart melt with gladness.

6. Remember the details

Another important thing that matters to most girls are the important dates, especially their birthday and your anniversary. They are impressed when guys remember the special dates. And it is not just about the occasions, it can also be about the details about their favorite things like favorite food, favorite music, and everything else that matter to them.

7. Discussion about the future

Talking about the future with her included in your plans will surely make her blown away because it only goes to show that you are sincere about her, your intentions are pure and that you want to have a lifetime commitment with her. It also means that you are already happy with your girl and that you are no longer interested with finding another one or you do not consider being with someone else anymore. That is because you are already happy and contented with who you are with and you cannot imagine spending your future with a different person anymore.

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Matchmaking service

June 28, 2017 by

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Many successful businessmen as well as Ukrainian ladies are using marriage sites and matchmaking service today. The international men and Russian women who search for love have their own business that requires their full attention to continuing its growth and prosperity. Therefore, these people try to minimize their effort in searching for a partner by turning their attention to marriage sites. They also often use a matchmaking service to find a person who completely fits their expectations. I would like to tell you more about our special service of matchmaking.

Types of matchmaking

Ukraine Brides offer 2 different types of matchmaking service:

1.  Free matchmaking service

2. Individual matchmaking service by your criteria

Both options include filling in a Matchmaking Questionnaire to determine the search criteria and partner characteristics. Once the survey is returned to us, we start working on it to find your special life partner. We choose from a range of the Ukrainian ladies from  agencies, all of whom were personally vetted by our team. According to your wish we may additionally invite you to a one-on-one Skype consultation with our marriage specialist. This communication will help us to understand your expectations and fears, your personal attitude to different types of ladies and their behavior. The whole procedure usually takes up to 7 days to be completed. So, what is the difference between the matchmaking types?

 Free matchmaking service

Our team searches for 5 Ukrainian ladies that fit the criteria you state in your questionnaire. We suggest to you the women in your age category and desired weight and height range. We may choose them by a specific city due to your preferences. You are under no obligation to contact any of the ladies that we recommend, but this procedure will significantly save your time and money while you search for your special Ukrainian lady. The free matchmaking service is a good opportunity for newly registered users as it helps them to start communicating with the ladies of a target group soon after initial registration. You do not need to waste your time and effort on getting to know how the site services work as the Ukraine Brides team will gladly explain you the ways of interaction while discussing your preferences.

 Individual matchmaking service

This service includes additionally searching for profiles with specific features important to you. We supply you the usernames of the Ukrainian ladies who we feel meet your criteria and personality, based on your questionnaire.

If the choice of ladies does not satisfy you, we continue the search. We offer you additional personal consultations via Skype to further refine your criteria. Our main aim is to find Ukrainian women that will be perfect matches for you. This work is the very heart of what we do and why we do our business.

 Why is this search individual?

Men often search for a specific feature that a Ukrainian lady must possess, in which case we turn to our partners to ask them whether one of their elite ladies fit their criteria. We often get a request to find a lady of a specific profession or having a particular hobby. Many men want to share all spheres of their life with their Ukrainian bride and their favorite hobby is a great way to unite with their lady and spend a lifetime of wonderful time together. Sometimes we even have the pleasure of searching for Ukraine women similar in appearance to a certain movie star! Such request is not an outstanding one. Remember that your questionnaire is private and confidential and that we do not release it to anyone outside of our partners and we only use it for the purpose of finding an ideal lifetime partner for you.

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Individual matchmaking procedure

This matchmaking type requires a lot of time and attention and easily justifies the investment of the $100 fee. This includes:

1)  one-on-one Skype consultation with our marriage specialist;

2) working out your questionnaire and pre-selection of the women among all the Ukrainian ladies from the database of ladies according to your requirements;

3) a survey of ladies and refinement of the list to determine who are sincerely interested in you, have no serious communication on the site and want to be in serious relationship very soon;

4) contacting each lady to find out whether she is interested in getting to know the man judging from his profile details;

5) submitting a final selection – this is the final choice of ladies for communication.

 When selection is done

The next step after the selection is to see with which ladies you will have successful communication and which ones you like in a video chat. For this, you need to ask the ladies what time is comfortable for them to video chat and then to book the chat.

If you want to order one of the matchmaking types, please contact us and inform us about your desires. We are always happy to help you with any questions during the whole process – just ask or experts. Our personal consultations will help you to understand national specialties and avoid cultural misunderstandings with your Ukrainian lady. We will make the matchmaking a wonderful experience for you.

If you wish to find out more about either matchmaking service follow this link: https://www.ukrainebridesagency.com/blog/?s=matchmaking

 

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How to Make Courtship the Most Romantic Phase of your Life

June 28, 2017 by

Courtship is a phase when you have finally found someone you can call your own. It is the stage before the wedding, a stage where you are still getting to know each other better before you finally decide to tie the knot. This is in fact, one of the most exciting parts of a relationship, but you can actually make it even more exciting with these following steps.

1. Spend more quality time together

Any relationship needs ample amount of quality time because it is necessary for its growth. There may be times when both of you can become preoccupied and busy especially when both of you are working. And while it is important for you to have your own personal space for other things and for other people, you also have to make a conscious effort to be with each other and spend quality time together. Make sure you decide or schedule a time when both of you can catch up and have a good conversation.

2. Start opening up

If you see that this person is someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with, you need to be comfortable to tell them anything and everything. Yes, it is good to leave some secrets on your own, but when it comes to your relationship, you need to be honest about your opinions and feelings. There is also no reason to be shy if that’s what you feel at the moment because this person is your wife or husband to be already.

3. Get to know their family

Since marriage is going to happen sooner or later, there is no better time to bond with your partner’s family than now. By getting to know their family members, it will make your relationship even stronger. After all, your partner’s family will also become your family in the long run.

4. Be honest

This stage is the perfect time for you to get to know each other, and it means that this is also the time when you need to let them know what you like and dislike in a relationship. However, you also have to make sure that you give your partner the chance to speak as well, and you need to hear them out. Respect each other’s opinions and feelings so that you can avoid misunderstandings.

5. Start planning and talking about the wedding

In any relationship, it is pretty much exciting especially when you know that there is something that you are looking forward to. Wedding preparations can be stressful and toxic, especially when you already start cramming. That is the reason why it is best when you start discussing the things that both of you would like to happen so that you can compromise and make adjustments when it comes to your choices.

6. Take time to look good

Being in a relationship does not mean that you have to stop dressing up and looking good for your partner. You still need to make sure you show them that you are not taking good care of yourself anymore. The thing about this step is that you are making your partner constantly want you and appreciate you. Always dress up nicely and neatly.

7. Appreciate each other

Nothing feels better than knowing that the person you love appreciates you for who you are and what you are. Therefore, you have to do this to your partner too. Don’t forget to complement them, thank them and appreciate them. It does not matter how big or small, the most important thing is that they know they are loved.

8. Plan for surprises

Surprises always make any relationship exciting and romantic. It does not require any special occasion for you to plan out for a surprise. It can be done on any random days when you just want to show love. It also does not have to be extravagant. It can be as simple as preparing for a little surprise dinner with their favorite dish which you cooked yourself. Going a little out of your way will surely be something that will make them feel happy, and loved.

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Common Relationship Problems and how to solve them

June 26, 2017 by
Common Relationship Problems

Relationships are never easy. It is not all the time rainbows and butterflies, and life is not always happy and perfect. There will always be bumps and obstacles along the way but these are the things that make a relationship even stronger.

If a couple knows how to deal with these problems and trials, there is a good chance for them to learn how to manage their relationship better. Ups and downs in a relationship are inevitable, but at the end of the day, it is all a matter of being able to know how to manage relationships better.

Here are the most common relationship problems you need to know and how to fix them.

1. Poor communication

We all know how important communication is in every relationship, and poor communication is actually the root cause of many relationship problems. There are many couples who do not have enough time for each other anymore so less communication takes place, while there are some that just really go through misunderstandings because of lack of effective communication.

So how do you deal with this problem? Set a schedule to see each other and be with each other. It is not enough to talk over the phone or chat or social media apps. If you have something serious you need to talk about and you feel like you can’t talk without raising voices, select a public place to talk so that you can control yourselves from having an argument. Also set rules before you talk. Give each other enough time to speak while you listen, and vice versa. Make sure that you are also showing your partner that you are paying full attention to what they are saying.

2. Money

Many couples fight about money before they are even married. The sad news is that this is something that is not supposed to be fighting about. What couples should do is to have a serious conversation about their finances.

To avoid arguing about money, you need to be honest with you partner, above anything else. Tell them your current financial situation so that you can discuss your best options. Also make sure that when you talk about money, you are both calm and relax and you should be in a peaceful surrounding so as to avoid getting things heated up. You must also be aware of each other’s tendencies, strengths, and weaknesses. Another important thing you must take note of is that you should never, ever hide your debt. Assign who is in charge of specific expenses and avoid blaming each other especially during the times when budget becomes a problem.

3. Home chores

This may be a simple thing but it is also one of the most common reasons behind a couple’s misunderstandings, especially when both of you are working and you barely have enough time for the house chores.

In order to deal with this, you have to make your roles clear to each other. You need to assign who does which. It is better if you write it so that there is a fair distribution of the tasks at home. If you think you cannot handle all the chores at home, you must also consider other options but talk about it and make sure it is fair to both parties.

4. Taking each other for granted

When you started with the relationship, you knew from then on that it is a commitment you need to hold on to. And it means that your relationship should be one of your topmost priorities. However, the longer the couple stays in the relationship, the harder it is to keep it going. So if you don’t feel so much in love anymore like how you used to, why don’t you recall all the great things you liked about each other and express these things again to your partner. Go out on a date during the weekend, constantly complement each other, and make sure that you still show interest. Make saying “thank you” a habit. It may be a very simple gesture but it can go a long way, and it can make your partner feel appreciated.

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6 Habits of Couples in Strong and Healthy Relationships

June 23, 2017 by
Strong and Healthy Relationships

Being in a relationship is not just all about happiness, sweetness, and romance. Although these things are part of it, you should also know that any successful relationship requires effort, time and energy. It needs two people to make things work because it isn’t rainbows and butterflies every single day. Bad days happen, too.

What sets successful, and healthy relationships apart are the habits of the couples when it comes to maintaining their relationship. Although it is not something that happens overnight, it is a matter of forming positive habits that will significantly impact the growth and success of the relationship.

Below are some of the most helpful habits that can make your relationship a happier and a healthier one.

1. Keeping communication lines open

One of the most important things in a relationship is the communication. However, there are proper ways of communicating, and if you want to make your relationship a healthy one, make sure to communicate your love for your partner constantly. Now, if there are any misunderstandings, it is always better to wait for your emotions and your anger to subside before you even discuss your problems. Otherwise, you may just end up saying bad things to each other. Wait until both of you are calm before you talk and make sure that you both are willing to listen and have open minds and hearts during the conversation.

2. Respecting each other

Love is not the only thing that can keep a love alive. Other things matter too, including trust and respect. If you want to enjoy your relationship with your partner, respect them the way you also want to be respected. Understand that they are also human, so you must respect them and their time, feelings, heart and everything else that matter to them. Be careful not to ruin that respect because it might be eating up your relationship little by little.

3. Spending quality time with each other

While spending time with each other is important, you must remember that it is not about how long and how much time you spend together, but it is about the quality. It is about what you do together to make your experience more fun and memorable. It is about how you make your moments worth the while. However, it does not have to be extravagant. You can enjoy doing simple things together like watching your favorite series at home, or having a picnic on the beach while watching the sunset. What matters is that you continue to treasure each other’s company.

4. Having an alone time

Even when you are in a relationship does not mean that you always have to be together, because you also need to have some time apart. This is one of the things that will make your relationship actually stronger. You both have to learn how to be independent without each other because too much time together can unnecessarily make you dependent, and that is not a good sign. There should be healthy boundaries between. Even married couples need this. They spend time with their friends without their husband or wife. They still spend time for their hobbies and passion alone and their partner does not have to be there all the time.

5. Appreciating each other

Another thing that will help keep the fire burning is the way you appreciate each other. You need to make a conscious effort to compliment your partner even with the simplest and littlest positive thing about them. It also does not always have to be something you see physically. It could be something that they did right, a job well done at work, a household chore, etc. The important thing is that you always have to say thank you, and let them know how much you appreciate them.

6. Trusting your partner

No relationship ever succeeds if there is no trust. The two people in a relationship must learn how to trust each other and this trust must be complete. Doubts will only ruin a good relationship, and this is the reason why many relationships and marriages fail because they allow infidelity and dishonesty destroy the trust in the relationship.

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