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ENERGY OF PEOPLE’S RELATIONSHIP

February 22, 2017 by

The relationship between a man and a lady is a complex process involving many unseen details. It is no secret that women are more sensitive than the men. But, do you know that many Ukrainian women are keen on doing yoga, esoterics and learning eastern spiritual practice? No? Then, I am going to open a bit of a hidden side of people’s relationships to you.

If there is a sympathy between two people, their bodies intensively exchange the energy and both communicators get pleasure of the contact. During the conversation of two people the channels arise between their auras and allow the energy flow to the both sides. The streams may take any color and be of any form. You may even see them, if you possess extrasensory abilities.

Types of relations

Energy streams connect the people through the appropriate chakras according to the type of their relations.

  • Muladhara – with relatives.
  • Svadhisthana – with lovers, spouses, between friends and relatives on the cheerful pastime.
  • Manipur – with relatives, colleagues, friends, subordinates, rivals, superiors, companions for sport.
  • Anahata – with objects of emotional interaction, our beloved people. For a harmonious development of relations between a man and a lady the channel through sexual chakra (Svadhisthana) is also very important.
  • Vishuddha – with associates and coworkers.
  • Ajna – with adored idol, leader of the sect, during the hypnotic or telepathic connection.
  • Sahasrara – connection only with egregors (religious sects, sport fan clubs, political movements, etc.)

The more passionate the relations are, the stronger connection is formed between the channels in the process of communication. While people build a close relationship, all their chakras gradually connect with the partner’s. That is why people who have lived for a long time together may even look alike.

How long a relationship lives

Strong relationships do not weaken by any distances or time. It is no wonder that a mother always feels her child. It doesn’t matter where he is. Even  ears may pass since their last meeting. The same happens when you meet an old friend after a while. You may feel as if you met only yesterday.

The channels stay for a long time – years, decades, and may go from incarnation to incarnation. (Of course, if you believe in that! :))

Healthy relationships form bright, clean channels. In such relationship there is trust, intimacy, sincerity and still a plenty of space for personal freedom and development. An equal exchange of energy happens in such connection, without any distortions.

When the relationship is gradually dying, the channels become thinner and weaker. Over time, the energy is no longer running through these channels, the connection is terminated, people become strangers.

If partners break up, but channels are still present, they continue to aspire to each other. It also happens when one partner breaks the communication channels and closes from the further interaction, but the other partner is still attached to him and tries to reach through the energy barriers to restore the relationship.

When you begin a conversation with a Ukrainian lady your body already sends her energy tie even if you are thousands miles away from her. If the sympathy is mutual, your first connection is already built. It may be weak and fragile in the beginning, but it is up to you how strong it becomes. The final result depends on many factors: on how much effort you pay and how gentle and tactful you are, but the caring gardener for this small sprout are both of you, and all is in your hands.

Become more than friends

As I already told you, the connection you build during the simple communication gradually becomes stronger as different chakras connect with each other. You could notice all the ties depend on various social roles. That is why it is important to become friends, spouses and lovers with your Ukrainian lady. On this way you may take on different roles: associates, superiors, subordinates, rivals in many small things, questions, and points of view. A relationship is a game, a hard work, a constant process with no end. It is your choice to make it pleasant and joyful for both – you and your Ukrainian lady.

Online chatting is a great way to set up a comfortable and emotional atmosphere with your Ukraine lady. Following the link you may find a post which may uncover some interesting ways of how to make online chatting interesting https://www.ukrainebridesagency.com/blog/flirting-with-girls-over-chat If you pay much effort during the conversation – you will build a strong connection with the lady far before you come and see her in person. Your bodies and souls will be already connected with unbreakable ties.

Of course, it is not a quick process and won’t work with many ladies you communicate with, that is why we recommend you to begin your interaction using text messages and find out if you have common interests.

Video chat as a great way of interaction

The second stage is a video chat with a lady as it is a unique opportunity to see her body language, feelings and emotions, listen to each other voices. More about the body language you may learn following this link: https://www.ukrainebridesagency.com/blog/6-signs-shes-say-love During the video chat you also have a possibility to show her your sincere smile and your manners. Real people’s images often differ from how they seem to their partners in text conversation. Do not underestimate the importance of a video chat saying that it is too expensive. If you don’t want the relation work in all spheres of people’s interaction then you’d better not to start it at all. But if you have already read till this moment, I guess that you are at least interested even if this all sounds to you weird 🙂

Doing something together with your partner always helps to establish good relations. Do not just talk: exchange ideas, tease each other, give creative tasks to your partner and watch the result together. You may go on online dates and dinners and try to live the way as if you are already a couple. If you follow this line, you will have no embarrassment, no fear, no concerns about each other on the day you meet here in Ukraine. You will already be a couple!

One more useful link for you to find some secrets of online dating to keep your online conversation interesting: https://www.ukrainebridesagency.com/blog/online-conversations-part-1

I hope that I helped you to understand your feelings and emotions towards different people. The importance of interacting with your Ukrainian lady in different ways is invaluable. I do believe that you have enough imagination and wish to set a start of something special to both of you! 🙂

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4 Ways to Be Happily with your Ukrainian Lady This Holiday Season

December 19, 2016 by
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It’s very easy to find date guides online, but it’s difficult to find specifically what you should do for your Ukrainian lady this holiday season. So, let’s get down to some of the ways you can happily be with your Ukrainian lady this holiday season.

The holiday season is the most exciting time of the year for many. They get to visit family and loved ones. Plus, they would get to spend more time together. This being said, you might have a Ukrainian lady that you would spend the holiday season with. So, how can you be both happy and remove any negativity during the trip? It’s easier said than done, but we’ll help you try to be more confident and lessen your anxiety.

Anxiety can get you

It’s not far off that anxiety can get the better of you when meeting your Ukrainian lady this holiday season. So, we’ll give you a little knowledge on dating even if you think you can’t handle your anxiety. It’s best that you are more aware of the possible effects of anxiety. Therefore, we’ll give you some information on how anxiety can affect your online dating relationships. According to GoodTherapy.org, anxiety not only impacts your relationship with your Ukrainian lady, it also impacts your health in all aspects – mentally, emotionally and even physically. Although it may seem like you’re just feeling overwhelmed with a sense of uneasiness and tension, your anxiety can take over your thoughts and actions that can negatively impact your life. You’ve got to think whether your anxiety could be putting your relationship with your Ukrainian in a little strain. If it does and you really want to take your Ukrainian lady and give her your best, then let us help you in trying to stop this anxiety.

Ways anxiety can ruin your relationship

As we’ve mentioned earlier, anxiety can definitely put a strain on yourself as well as your Ukrainian lady. Plus, the holidays are coming up, so you might be thinking what should I get her? Would she like me? Would she think I’m different? What if she doesn’t like me when we meet? These are just some of the things that can run through your head. When you have these questions running through your head, things can become more negative and you’ll start to panic. When this happens, there are a lot of things it can affect as well.

As anxiety causes you to worry and fear, you’ll be less aware of what you need at the moment. So, you’re more likely to not be present at the moment you are with your partner. This means that you won’t be able to connect with one another and trust could be prematurely disregarded. Try and train your brain to live in the moment. Basically, calm yourself down before you act and share that you’re feeling worried.

While you can easily get worried and your connection with your Ukrainian lady could get affected, it can also crush your true voice and what you really want to say. This further involves your procrastination in how you’d like your night or your time with your lady to go. So, in other words, you may have difficulty in expressing your true feelings to your Ukrainian lady, which is difficult in a sense. Why? Because most Ukrainian ladies are known to want confident men. They want to feel secure with the men they’re going to go out with, so anxiety may not help your relationship with your Ukrainian woman. If you need to express something, try and express it and don’t become too overwhelmed.

When you become too overwhelmed, it’s possible that you become very selfish and act very defensive about anything. So, you may be putting unnecessary pressure on yourself, your Ukrainian lady and the relationship. This means you’re not being compassionate and vulnerable with your partner. It can easily build up resentment quickly. Plus, instead of moments of joy, anxiety can rob you of that. So, build trust within your relationship and reduce the power anxiety has over you. Because when you know how bad anxiety can take over you and your relationship, you’ll know how to minimize the impact and create a better relationship dynamic between you and your Ukrainian lady.

4 ways to be happy with your Ukrainian lady this holiday season

Even if anxiety doesn’t get you, you may still feel like you have a difficult time to be happy with your Ukrainian lady this holiday season. So, what should you do? If you’re going to visit Ukraine, we will suggest four ways you could spend time with her. However, if she’ll be visiting your place/vicinity for the holiday season, depending on where you are, you could also show your Ukrainian lady some of your favorite places. So, you can be happy and spend the holiday season having a great time with your Ukrainian lady.

While in Ukraine, spending time with your lady is very important. First of all there are more ways than four you can get to know your Ukrainian lady better while also learning a lot about Ukraine. This is really important if it’s your first time to visit Ukraine as well. So, what are four ways you can enjoy Ukraine with your Ukrainian woman?

1. Kyiv and parks

Kyiv, the capital city of Ukraine, is known to have a lot of parks. You can go on long or short walks around the parks that you’re able to enter any time of the year. Mariyinsky and Khreshchatyj Parks are the most favorite parks in Kyiv. They’re both located at the beautiful Dnieper River. Furthermore, they have architectural landmarks you wouldn’t want to miss. You’ve got the Mariyinsky Palace. You and your Ukrainian lady can take a private tour in and along this beautiful palace. Beyond taking a tour, you two could also ravel in the gorgeous building called the Kyiv Academic Puppet Theater. If you’re feeling the love, you could visit the Lover’s Bridge. However, the Lover’s Bridge is usually a place where newlyweds go to.

In order to get there, you can ask your Ukrainian lady where this place is or you can walk down from Khreshchatyk Avenue towards European Square. From there, climb up a small hill to reach Kyiv Academic Puppet Theater and the Dnieper River banks.

2. Museum of One Street and local handicrafts at Andriyivsky descent

It’s almost a must that you go somewhere where you can shop with your lady. Remember not to give her all the good stuff just yet. Even if you’re filled with money and have very deep pockets, don’t make that the highlight of your trip. Make you and your Ukrainian lady the highlight of your trip by making sure that you two bond well. So, why not have a visit at the Museum of One Street? In this museum, you’ll see the it’s small but it’s got a lot to offer. After visiting the museum, you’ll find the most enchanting and rich history of Ukraine’s capital, Kyiv, at its most famous street, Andriyivsky Descent. Some people call it the descent or the Andriyivsky Uzviz. It’s a small downhill street that used to connect Upper Kyiv to the now more commercial district of Podil, which is located at the river banks of Dnieper. It’s also famous for its art bazaar, crafts shops as well as local artisans. You and your lady will surely enjoy some time in this area of Kyiv.

In order for you to reach this place, you can either take a metro to Kontraktova Square and from there walk up the Andiyivsky Descent, or you can take a more traditional route – walk down from Independence Square, towards Hyatt Hotel, then walk along Volodymyrska st until you finally reach the Descent.

3. Sculptures Alley

Although this may seem a bit childish, this place is thought and seen to be the kindest place in the capital. According to many, the main reason for this place being the kindest place is because no person have ever passed it without a smile. It was built in the 80s by Avraam Miletsky who is an architect. It started to grow additions of contemporary art sculptures in 2009. Plus, it’s in one of the off-the-beaten tracks of Kyiv. Afterwards, you can go visit some cafes on the side or at the end of the alley. You can then talk to one another when sitting down at the cafe. The best part is you’ll be able to visit St. Andrew’s Descent first and then see the Kyiv Museum of History while heading to Sculptures Alley.

4. Shop organic food and talk to Babushkas at a local bazaar

If you didn’t already know, Babushkas are considered to be old ladies or grandmothers. But, the actual Ukrainian name for these hard-working bunch would be “babcia.” You and your Ukrainian lady can go to the markets and talk to babushkas. You will be able to buy fresh fruits, vegetables and even flowers that you and your Ukrainian lady will enjoy.  The closest to Kiev’s city center, though not most authentic, is Bessarabsky Bazaar. It’s located at the end of Khreshchatyk St. and can be easily reached by foot. For a more local experience, go for Zhytniy Bazaar: located at Verhniy Val st., 16. You can reach it from Kontraktova Square Metro Station.

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Perfect Christmas Date Ideas in Ukraine

December 17, 2016 by
Christmas date ideas in Ukraine

Spending a perfect Christmas isn’t all that difficult. However, finding the perfect Christmas date ideas in Ukraine may be the most difficult thing. This is especially true if you aren’t familiar with Ukraine.

Ukraine is a huge country. You’ve got a lot of provinces and cities that all have different things to offer from one another. So, giving you exact locations may be difficult on our part as well. Depending on where your Ukrainian woman is from, you’re going to have to find something. We’ll be providing you with Christmas date ideas in Ukraine, specifically Odessa and Kiev. However, with other provinces, you may be able to grab and spin some of the ideas we’ll provide depending on what’s available in that area.

Hopefully by now, you’d know that Ukrainians celebrate Christmas on January 7 of every year. They are an Orthodox country, and just like other Orthodox countries, they follow the Julian calendar. Their calendar is thirteen days behind in the Gregorian calendar. So, their December 25 on the Julian calendar is January 7. But, on the Gregorian calendar, which is what is universally used, it’s January 7. So, if your Ukrainian lady is inviting you over for Christmas, make sure to ask whether they celebrate it on the 25th of December or the 7th of January. This will provide you information on when you should book your plane ticket. Plus, it’ll let you know which Christmas date ideas in Ukraine are perfect for your trip.

Date ideas in Kiev

Kiev, also spelled as Kyiv, is Ukraine’s capital city. This place offers a lot of places to go on a date. Depending on what kind of scenery and feel you two have that day of the date, you’ll be able to choose from various places.

Sculpture garden

You can have a quiet date around the Sculpture Garden at the Peizazhna Alley. Thanks to TripAdvisor, you can know how to get to this place. While going to that place, you can also visit St. Sophia and Andriyivskyy Descent. St. Sophia is a cathedral, and it’s the best known landmark of Kiev and Ukraine itself. You can take your lady for an early date and bring her to St. Sophia. It’ll show your lady that you’re the type to commit in a church. Andriyivskyy Descent, on the other hand, is a historic descent connecting Kiev’s Upper Town neighborhood together with the historically commercial Podil neighborhood. While delving in the history of Kiev, you’ll be able to delve into your Ukrainian lady’s history knowledge. The time spent together touring these places will give you an idea how much she knows about her home. Plus, it’ll give you two some time to talk about each other.

Once you two are tired from walking around, you could go to a cafe called Ciao Cacao! or Чао Какао! This is a place you two could have some coffee and get to know each other a little more. If you’re lucky, she’ll be able to open up to you how her parents would take her around this place when she was a child.

Khreschatyk Park

This is a great place if you or your Ukrainian lady love the great outdoors. If sculpture garden is out of the question, maybe heading for a little cold picnic over at Khreschatyk Park will ensure a very happy lunch date. You two could spend the afternoon throwing snowballs at each other, and ice skating. However, you’ve got to be prepared. You’ve either got to bring take out food and drinks from somewhere. You can also buy her a small gift, something that she’s interested in at the Christmas market over at the park. There are several food stalls available at the Christmas market. So, you can buy food there if you want.

National Opera of Ukraine

If you want a change of scenery in a theater, you could grab a couple of tickets to the National Opera of Ukraine where The Nutcracker performance will probably be showing. The tickets range from about $2 to $22. That’s not bad at all if you compare it to London prices of The Nutcracker. You can purchase your tickets at the Opera House, but maybe you could try and call in for a reservation. After watching the show, you two could have a candlelit dinner at a restaurant nearby that serves wine. If you’re not a big drinker, it’s no problem. You can easily order a glass of wine or at least offer the lady if she’d like some wine.

Date ideas in Odessa

Similar to Kiev, there are a lot to do in Odessa. The scenery of Odessa is very different compared to Kiev. Odessa, also spelled as Odesa, is found near the border of the Black Sea. So, compared to Kiev’s architecture views, in Odessa, you’ve got the ocean. According to some Western men, women are more beautiful in Odessa. Plus, people are nicer as well as the cost of living is also cheaper. Here are some date suggestions if you’re visiting around Odessa.

7th Kilometer Market

Although we don’t usually advise shopping for your Ukrainian lady, 7th Kilometer Market has lots of clothes that are very cheap. So, if you’re just visiting, you can also buy some stuff for yourself or to take back as a souvenir. If you’re wondering if shopping is really a date, it might as well be as it’s something Ukrainian women surely love to do. But, you may not be keen on being lugged around while a woman is shopping. In this case, you could go to a cafe in the basement of Alfina. You and your Ukrainian lady can dine among the oldest soviet wall paintings.

Saunas or Banyas

As Christmas time usually coincides with snow, it can get very cold in Odessa. If you’re looking in for some pamper time for you and your Ukrainian lady, why not try saunas or banyas. Banyas are the Russian type spas. Saunas and banyas could help you two stay warm and healthy during the cold winter time. There are several types of saunas and banyas you can enjoy. There’s one where it’s mixed or there’s also one that separates both male and female. You might want to ask your Ukrainian lady if she’s comfortable with this. If you aren’t familiar with Banya, then check out Ukrainian Guide.

Ice Skating

Since snow may be rampant in Odessa, like in Kiev, you can easily grab the opportunity to go ice skating with your Ukrainian lady. Even if you don’t know how to ice skate, there’s always something to bond over. You can take videos of each other failing at ice skating. The two of you could also ask someone to take a photo of you two (or maybe just bring a selfie stick!). There are several places you can go ice skating in Odessa like the Ldinka Ice Skating Rink.

Remembering that you two having a good time is the most important part of a date. Although you or your Ukrainian lady may not have the best of time on your date, having a good time is nonetheless a success. If it’s your first time meeting each other, maybe take a short stroll and sit down at a cafe to talk. However, be very wary of the women you’re dating. You don’t need to spend big bucks just so you can date each other. Finding the perfect Christmas date ideas in Ukraine should cost you your life savings. It should only cost you time, and it should be time well spent with your Ukrainian lady.

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Ukrainian Dating Culture: Is It Real? Is Worth The Money?

December 15, 2016 by

The Ukrainian dating culture has been a very debated topic because there are a lot of myths and rumors about Ukrainian women. There are so many men wondering whether or not it’s worth the money to even date Ukrainians. Furthermore, there are some that wonder if the Ukrainian dating culture is real. So, we’re here to debunk some myths and rumors about the Ukrainian dating culture.

Also, we just wanted to note to readers that because Ukrainian Brides Agency caters to Ukrainian dating, it doesn’t mean that we’re going to keep you in the dark. It’s even part of our policy to avoid scams and as much as possible for scams to be prevented. So, we’re always here to help you with your queries, comments, and suggestions.

Ukrainian women are only interested in money and guys with money

This is probably the number one that a lot of people worry about. This myth is not entirely false. Everyone has to know that there are individuals who “love” for money while there are others who are plainly looking for love. With this myth lurking, there is a good number of Ukrainian women who find this myth very offensive. The reason why this would be offensive is the fact that Ukrainian women would sometimes have to leave their country. This means that they need at least some sort of assurance that they would have a financially secure family. Furthermore, although Ukrainian women do love to shop, most of them aren’t recognized as materialistic. They love to shop because they always want to look good.

Ukrainian women are too unattractive to find a partner in Ukraine

This is probably one of the funniest, subjective, and easiest myth to debunk. If you’ve seen photos of Ukrainian women or even get to engage in a live video session, you’ll see that Ukrainian women have a league of their own when it beauty. Ukrainian women who use online dating sites are both keen not to only meet new people but also create interest in foreign countries. Plus, many Ukrainian women think that Ukrainian men are lazy and lack the motivation to raise a family. Furthermore, some of the singles on online datings sites are already mother. Single mothers usually don’t want to find another partner in Ukraine because the men aren’t usually good enough for them.

Ukrainian women online aren’t real or they only chat for fun

There are men that have been burned or scammed by “Ukrainian women.” Some men say the Ukrainian women on online dating sites don’t really have any intention of meeting and even marrying foreigners. They just want to talk and toy with someone’s feelings through these sites. Although in some case this could happen, this doesn’t happen all the time. Ukrainian women are in essence compassionate and warm. So, if they’re interested, they probably are. One of the main reason why Ukrainian women are even chosen is because they’re honest and open. When a foreign man uses a Ukraine brides agency, this usually assures that you’ll be meeting women from Ukraine who are looking for a relationship.

Ukrainian women will have more than one love interest

This myth is true, not only among Ukrainian women. Although this practice doesn’t only affect foreign men trying to date Ukrainian women, this practice affects everyone as with online dating you really just can’t stick to one. Online dating gives everyone the benefits of talking to more than one person at a given time. It’s unfair for Ukrainian women looking for prospective husbands to not talk to more than one man. This is, of course, in comparison to the men who constantly send messages to other women in hopes of opening up a relationship with one of the women they’re talking. It works similarly as this. However, another angle to look at this is that Ukrainian women have a lot of “boyfriends.” In other words, they aren’t monogamous. This cannot be said whether it’s true or false as you’ve got to remember that you’re dealing with individuals that have different personalities and intentions. Even if generally most Ukrainian women long for a sustainable family, there are a handful of people who long for a lavish life. Ukrainian women who interested will show you signs of respect, openness as well as attentiveness. You can check out our previous blog about how to know if a Ukrainian woman is attracted to you.

Ukrainian women are cold as ice, they’re good in bed, but not with emotions

This is more often than not a problem a lot of people have with Ukrainian women. Since they know what they want, they could become cold towards you. Or sometimes, they seem like they have no emotions. Understanding that they are from a different culture can take you a long way when dating a Ukrainian woman. There are numerous men saying, “I’m afraid she’s not getting emotionally close to me.” Krystyna of Ukrainian Dating Blog has a perfect example of this here. Krystyna says that “you should know that [the Ukrainian] culture is rather conservative (the women are shy and do not kiss at the first date usually). Many readers write me [Krystyna] that Ukrainian and Russian ladies are very shy, cannot or do not want to hug or kiss Western men, and it is really difficult sometimes to find out whether the woman is into you or not.”

Ukrainian women will not move out of her country to be with a man

It’s true that Ukrainian women have difficulty when you bring them your country instead of you staying in their country. There are difficulties of moving cross-country, and it’ll take time for someone to adapt. Moving to another country isn’t the same as just traveling around or touring that country. They basically have to take everything they know and leave it, especially their family. Ukrainian women take great pride of their country, their roots and their families. But, when a Ukrainian woman meets her future husband or at least husband-to-be, they’ll become more open to moving to your country once it has been established that you two are the right match. Remember that dating is a two way street. It’s full of compromises and every chance you two get to see each other is another added plus to both of your books that you two will have a successful marriage life. Ukrainian women are smart, educated and confident. This is true even if they’re attracted or have feelings of attachment to a man, like yourself. The only thing necessary at that point is whether or not you can assure your Ukrainian lady a secure life when adopting the move. Here’s great reading material about intercultural marriages between Western men and Ukrainian women.

Is It Real? Is Worth The Money?

As you can tell from the myths we’ve more or less debunked, Ukrainian women are real. But, the question of whether it’s worth the money or not depends on you and the website that you’re using. There are still several sites up that scam people out of their loneliness and singlehood. However, if you pick the right site, you’ll surely enjoy as you’ll be in the receiving end. Most dating sites actually are a bit expensive due to the website maintenance as well as the vetting of the women in their site. Why? Because when a site goes through a vetting process, it means that there are representatives that make sure the women are real. Furthermore, you’ll be more at ease that you aren’t being duped for the sake of money. We know that our customers do not want to waste both their time and money. So, here at Ukrainian Brides Agency, we take pride in providing you the best service possible to meet Ukrainian women. We help connect you to the women in Ukraine, but it’s all up to you how you’re going to approach them.

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How to Keep Online Conversations Interesting, Part 2

December 12, 2016 by
Keeping Online Conversations

So many romances reach their conclusion even before they get the chance to develop into something much more substantial. Such an unfortunate end may seem unforeseeable at the beginning, yet millions upon millions of hearts are left broken in situations that turn ugly too soon.

As always, it is easy to just blame destiny or Cupid himself and his faulty arrows. But often, the finger should be pointed at the people involved in relationships that run out of steam before their potentials could be fully realized.

Countless love stories wither as soon as the well of conversations dries up. Great conversations are vital to a long lasting relationship, particularly in the online dating scene. Some of the suggestions to keep online conversations interesting are asking questions, being true to yourself, and flirting away. Asking questions is necessary because it helps people discover each other and serves as a relevant indicator of whether someone is self-absorb or not. On the other hand, being true to oneself presents someone as human with flaws and saves them from possible heartbreak or embarrassing situations in the future. Flirting away is fun and, when you flirt just the right amount, it can be indicative of someone’s romantic interests in you.

Here are more tips on how to keep online conversations interesting.

4) Observe.

This goes back to asking questions. It is never enough to just ask the other person questions. Pay attention to what they say and take note of the stories they tell you. Making observations may seem like a very simple thing to do, but the sad truth is, many people fail to do it. That is the reason that people, who show their interest in others by asking about themselves, are still accused of not giving enough attention during their conversations.

Take note that observing does not necessarily mean memorizing their stories. This goes beyond what they tell you. Observe the way they laugh when something funny is mentioned. Pay attention to how their voice rises and falls when they speak or if they smile or frown when they pause while thinking of the next thing they want to say to you.

If your relationship has reached another level and your online conversations have transitioned to video chats, it even gives you more things to observe, such as the color of their hair, the way it falls on their face, her clothes and accessories, the room she is in, the color and shape of her eyes, or even the color of her painted fingernails.

Making observations show that you are an attentive person and do not take the little things for granted.

5) Expand topics.

When the threat of a dying conversation looms in the horizon, expanding on topics you have previously talked about is one great way to save the conversation and make it more interesting.

What you can do is ask the other person to tell you five things they have done during their day. This can range from something as simple as going to work or catching up with a friend to something that they do not do on an everyday basis such as buying a new outfit or pieces of jewelry.

Take note of all their answers to your questions. Then ask them about them one by one. A simple conversation about their work day can easily lead to a discussion revolving around their workplace, work history, the people they work with, and their professional aspirations, among other things. On the other hand, a conversation about them spending time with a friend can open up doors to their personal history. They can tell you about their friend’s life, which is always an interesting topic. Talking about new clothes and accessories can also go beyond the standard questions regarding color or the store they have bought it from. For example, some people buy new outfits because they are going through changes in their lives. It can also be as uncomplicated as rewarding themselves for working hard or preparing for an event or a party that they have been invited to.

The most wonderful thing is there never exists a time to expand topics. Chances are some of the answers they will give you are something they get up to on a regular basis. The beauty of having this knowledge in hand is you can ask the same questions every time, but the answers will rarely bear any similarities.

6) Relate similar subjects.

There comes a time when a conversation can get “too interesting” that it must simply be brought down to Earth. People have a tendency to talk too much about a particular subject until it becomes necessary to change the topic. Changing the topic in which a discussion revolves is rarely easy, but it also is the only thing that can save the conversation from expiring.

This can be achieved by relating subjects that share similarities to what is already being talked about. For example, your conversation could presently be about holidays with the family. You can prefix the shift with only four words – That reminds me of.

This strategy can also be employed when you want to change the current topic and steer the conversation towards a subject that you desire because you are of the opinion that it could possibly lead to something more fruitful.

7) Ask them about their plans for the remainder of their day.

Sometimes, because of time differences, either person is in the middle of their day when a conversation erupts. Also sometimes, because of stress brought upon by the work day, people tend to run out of things they can talk about. In situations like this, it will serve you well to ask them about their plans for the remainder of their day.

Not only does this give you something new to talk about, it also demonstrates that you are interested in the routines that characterize their daily life. Moreover, it just seems like a natural conversation to have. People in relationships often check on each other during the day. It does not necessarily mean that the person asking this is clingy. That is as long as you refrain from asking them the same question every other hour or so.

The new conversation topics that this question guarantees you that the rest of your lunch break will not be filled with deafening silence. In addition to telling each other about your plans for the rest of the day, you also will have an idea what to ask them when you talk again at the end of the day. If their afternoon will be spent inside a conference room, you can ask them at night how the meeting went. As previously mentioned, this provides your conversations a natural feeling because of the continuity and spontaneity.

8) Pick up right where you left off.

In an ideal world, you will have as much time as you can to talk to the person you like. However, in the real world, online conversations often get interrupted by work commitments and, sometimes, emergencies. After three or so hours, when you start talking to them again, four times out of five, you find yourself talking about an entirely different thing. And four times of five, you have to rebuild the flow of the conversation.

It is never easy to gain momentum whether you are talking to someone you have known for a short while or a long while. That is why it is recommended to pick up right where you left off. Resuming the last topic you were discussing is a guaranteed to give your conversation a more natural rhythm, so much so that it will feel as though you never took a break from talking in the first place.

9) Show them something.

This is something people hardly think of when they are in desperate need of saving a dying conversation. It does not matter if you are messaging each other or are in the middle of a video chat. If it is the former, all you need to do is to send them a picture of that something you want to show them.

Now, what could that something be? This is not, of course, something you just happen to have. It also does not have to be a super interesting thing. Tell them to please hold on for a few seconds because you want to show them something. Then go find that old photo album that documents your childhood. Show them pictures from holidays, birthdays, or school programs. Try your best to choose pictures that you know that back story of.

If you have a pet, you also can show it to them. Tell them about how long you have had your pet or about their crazy habits.

The best thing about this idea is that you do not have to wait until your conversation threatens to fizzle out. You can show them that particular something at the beginning of a conversation or during the middle when you feel the need to switch subjects.

With these ideas on how to keep online conversations interesting, you will never have to worry about awkward silences. Have fun!

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How to Keep Online Conversations Interesting, Part 1

December 11, 2016 by
Online Conversations

Countless love stories wither before they ever get the chance to blossom into something unmatched in its beauty, leaving you with nothing else to do, except wonder where you went wrong. You blame yourself as you wallow in the sadness that only a broken heart knows. After some time, you gain enough courage to open up your heart to the possibility of loving again. “This is it,” you whisper to yourself in the middle of a conversation with the person you are grateful for piecing the pieces of your heart together again.

The first date is everything you could have ever dreamed of and more. In the dim light of a fancy restaurant or a coffee shop, you keep blinking your eyes and pinching yourself because you find it nearly impossible to believe that something good is finally happening. Love, at last, is standing at your door. You find yourself lost in a conversation that is only interrupted by the waiter clearing the plates and asking if you would like another glass of wine. You say yes without breaking eye contact.

You head out to the street as you wait for a cab to take you home. You break all your promises to yourself not to seem too keen and proceed to tell them that you have never had such a fun night in a very long while. You discover that your feelings are mirrored. The night is yet to come to a close, but you already are making plans to see each other again. Friday night, Saturday afternoon. You tell them it hardly matters as long as you get to spend more time with them again.

The second date cannot come too soon. You are giddy with the impatience of a child on Christmas Eve, picking up the box underneath the Christmas tree, the one with their name on it, shaking the box to figure out if what lies inside the shiny wrap is what you have written in your Christmas wish list.

As if out of the blue, you find yourself in front of the person you are pretty sure you will be spending the rest of your life with. Yet it also feels as if you are with a different person. You open your mouth, but barely anything comes out of it. You look at your date. While during the first date, it has seemed like you are catching up for not having known each other for a quarter of a lifetime, this night feels as if you are strangers with absolutely nothing in common, like two people waiting on the train platform engaged in small talk, politely complaining to each other about how the train is late again for the hundredth time in a week.

You throw a smile at each other. You gaze into each other’s eyes, but turn your head to stare at the table because the silence is anything else but comfortable. The night ends, and you have only exchanged more awkward smiles than sentences. You know how bad of a night it has been, but you want to be polite. You lie through your teeth and tell them that night has been splendid. “Yeah, splendidly awkward,” you tell yourself as they get on a cab that will take them home.

Half an hour later, you find yourself in bed with troubling questions. “Where did I go wrong?” you ask yourself once more. You smell your breath and your clothes. They smell exactly the same way they smelled on the night of your first date. You let out a sigh. You are in the very same rut you were in a few weeks or months ago. It is another love story that has withered before it ever gets the chance to bloom into something unmatched in its beauty.

You alternate between wondering about what you can do to break the cycle and pondering on giving up on love altogether.

Some people realize where they go wrong almost immediately while others take some time, enough time to become disillusioned about romance.

In many instances, conversations are to blame. Rather, the lack of quality conversations. As one song goes, “I want love to love me back. I want two-way conversations.” Yes, the seed of love has no chance of ever blossoming without interesting conversations to shine its warm rays upon it.

The ugly truth is that it also applies to the online dating scene. You spend hours upon hours looking through various online dating profiles and grow more and more surprise at how many people out there can be the one you can share your whole life with. After gathering just the right amount of confidence, you reach out to a few of them. Everything is going well until you notice a similar pattern. After some time, the conversations just seem to die, and you finally admit to yourself that you are partly to blame because you are clueless when it comes to keeping conversations going.

But worry no more because here are few tips on how to keep online conversations interesting.

1) Ask questions.

Several years ago, a story came out that sent shockwaves across the entire dating scene, online and offline alike. According to a certain social experiment, it apparently takes only a few hours to fall in love with someone and also make the other person fall in love with you. The most important part of this experiment, second to finding someone you can have this conversation with is, is asking each other specific questions from a set composed of thirty-six. These questions range from personal ones to silly ones and are sure to make them think, laugh their asses off, and share pieces of their life with you. While these questions are meant to be asked when you are face to face with someone, it is nonetheless a marvelous idea to make them a part of your online conversations.

The simplest and lightest of questions are also a guaranteed way to keep online conversations interesting. As a matter of fact, asking these seemingly thoughtless questions is a good way to keep the conversation running. Because they hardly require answers that a person can only come up with after a minute or two-minute long trip down memory lane, they will ultimately feel comfortable around you until they eventually let their guards down.

In addition, a variety of psychological studies have proven that when you are asking someone to talk about their life, they immediately take a liking to you. Once someone starts liking you, they certainly will find ways to spend more time with you and put in more effort towards keeping the sparks burning.

A conversation filled with questions is also a reliable indicator of whether you and your date are a pretty good match. This happens when they also express interest in you by asking you questions. However, if you are the only one asking away, you can be sure that the person you are talking to is self-absorbed and is not the kind of person who will value your emotions.

2) Honesty is still the best policy.

When you find yourself talking to people online, it becomes easy to adapt a new personality. According to scientists, this is normal because people tend to let their hair down when they are talking to someone whom they are not face to face with. However, some people more than crank things up a notch. Rather than gaining a more confident personality, some people down right take on new identities. Experts explain that this is born out of the unhappiness that people have in their lives, in addition to insecurities that prevent them from building connections in their lives outside of the online dating scene.

Honesty is indeed the best policy because it saves you from more heartache in the end. Say, you are hitting it off with someone. You are so alike, and you both want to take your relationship to the next level. However, you lied about your height.

People who embrace their flaws are instantly more attractive because they seem more human. That is not license to beat yourself up, though. Be flawesome and tell them while you are shorter than the average person in your age group, you make up worth it with humor.

Moreover, make fun of yourself to demonstrate your confidence. This can result in the other person sharing their own insecurities with you because they are aware that you can handle the truth.

3) Flirt away.

There is nothing in the world that can ignite more sparks than flirting. While good conversations are a good indication of whether the other person is interested in you, flirting is the only indication that someone likes you more than as a friend. And when you are talking online to someone that you like, you no doubt want to know if they like you, as well.

However, you need to consider that flirting online should be carried out at a different pace than when you are flirting with someone you know in real life. The reason behind that is since the person you are engaged in an online conversation with cannot see you, your flirtatious words and acts can easily be taken the wrong way. Various relationship experts have also agreed that flirtation in an online setting can be a major turn off.

Now, what are some things that qualify as flirting? Sending a gym selfie or talking about sex toys send a clear message that pertains to physical intimacy. Instead, turn your flirting dial a few notches down and ask them questions that have just the right amount of spice. For example, ask them if they are a cat person or a dog person, then casually throw in the fact that dog persons are popularly known as better lovers.

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Here are the Dating Lies It’s Okay to Tell

December 9, 2016 by
Dating Lies

When you reflect on past interactions, more often than not, you catch yourself recognizing the benefits of hindsight and wishing you had said something else. Next thing you know, you’re pacing back and forth and your anxiety is pulling your face into different contortions. The many minutes you spend doing this is laced with several interjections. You come up with witty retorts a day too late or you begin to appreciate the benefits of widening your vocabulary after realizing that you could have better communicated your thoughts if only you had chosen a different word. Sometimes, sobriety blesses you with the realization that you shouldn’t have let that totally inappropriate story escape your lips. Other times, you realize all the troubles you could have avoided had you only told the truth and nothing but the truth.

Growing up, chances are your parents gave you more than an earful after they caught you in the act of lying. “Honesty is the best policy” and “The truth shall set you free,” they told you and, after repeat offences, they remind you. So, you promised to your parents, your best friends, and yourself that you would never ever lie again.

Lies, whether they’re the white variety or the kind that come from a bad place, have consequences that are so beyond our control. When you were still dating your first boyfriend out of college, you bragged about your mastery in baking and supported it with a detailed tale of waking up early on weekend mornings so you could watch and help your mom bake cookies, brownies, or cakes. “I love how freshly baked cookies make my apartment smell,” you exclaim. Months later, you got into an ugly argument with your now boyfriend. The loving person that he was, or probably still is, he wouldn’t think twice of forgiving you. Then he flashed you that toothy grin and said, “On one condition. Make me chocolate chip cookies.”

You screamed internally before saying, “Of course, sweetheart.” And then you screamed internally some more. You make pancakes out of the box, and even then, you couldn’t make decent ones. So how on earth can you bake cookies to show your boyfriend how sincerely sorry you are?

So, you turn to saints or your guardian angels for help. They aren’t exactly miracle workers. So, you look up recipes for chocolate chip cookies online, sweat while reading the instructions. You then take a trip to the nearest supermarket to buy all the ingredients. Then you sweat some more, much more, while making the batter and the rest of the baking process.

Then it’s judgment time. Your chocolate cookies couldn’t be more unspectacular. You see it in your boyfriend’s face after he takes the first bite. Your fake smile withers. You think of expressing to your boyfriend how disappointed you are because of his lack of appreciation. He swallows one half of the cookie and return the uneaten half on the china plate you hoped would make up for your chocolate cookies’ horrible taste. Then another argument erupts. It’s an even bigger argument. Your boyfriend tells you that he’s tired and fed up of all your lies and wants none of it from this moment on. He calls it quits. You leave his apartment with your plate of chocolate chip cookies that even you won’t dare to eat.

You’re single again.

All because you lied.

As you look for a new romance, try to take comfort in knowing that everyone lies. Well, not everyone. A survey found out that sixty-one per cent of people lie on their first dates. Nearly half of these liars fess up by the third date while a quarter wait until they’re in the act before delivering their confessions.

But you also know from previous life experiences that lying is sometimes okay and occasionally makes for an interesting story. Here are the dating lies it’s okay to tell.

1) Your name.

No, this isn’t permission to adapt a new identity. You can’t go from being an Emily to introducing yourself as Charlotte. If you’re looking for hookup, that’s completely understandable and acceptable. But if the reason you’re even dating in the first place is to end up in a relationship, it’s an absolute no-no.

What this means is you don’t have to give them your full name. You don’t even have to tell them you’re given name. If your parents named Emily, it’s perfectly fine if you introduce yourself by your nickname Emma.

So, why is lying just a little about your name advisable? It’s because there’s no guarantee that your date will go well or will lead to more dates. For safety purposes, use your nickname. That way, you can avoid creeps who will definitely stalk you online once they get the chance to.

2) Your address.

Lying about your address is also suggested for purposes involving your safety. You don’t want to run the risk of your totally horrible date showing up at your door completely unannounced, with a bouquet of roses and chocolates and an apology for insulting you on your first date. Chances are most first dates won’t lead to second, third, fourth, and fifth dates. So, don’t give away your address just yet unless you want unwelcome visitors turning up at your door.

Lying about your address isn’t a permission to fake your identity, as well. Don’t tell them you live in an upscale neighborhood just because you want to impress them or feel superior.

3) Your five-year plan.

This isn’t a job interview, so you don’t have to tell your date where you see yourself five years from now. Yes, you want to be in a loving relationship, but telling your date that you want to be happily married and a mother to two adorable kids isn’t going to fool yourself date into thinking that you’re truly, madly, deeply attracted to them. It’s a first date, not a marriage proposal.

4) Your culinary preferences.

Allergies are understandable and are one of the things that you should never ever lie about. So, he offers you a bite of his rotisserie chicken. Say no, instead of politely tasting his food. But don’t forget to offer an explanation. Instead of lying to them about how you dislike the texture and taste of chicken, just tell them that you’re allergic to chicken. Trust me. Even if you bring antihistamine with you, it won’t work like magic and prevent you from having allergic reactions.

You also don’t want to develop red blotches on your face and up in the emergency even before you get a chance to order dessert.

5) Your precise job title.

No, don’t lie about your job. Don’t say you’re a model when you’re a primary school teacher. Again, this is a date, not a job interview. Instead of telling them what you do for a living, tell them the things you like about the industry you work in.

6) Your annual salary.

This is pretty self explanatory. You don’t tell them how much you make. Be modest and don’t brag or complain about how much you get paid. First dates aren’t a suitable time to give them a sneak peak of your bank account.

7) Your thoughts when you first saw their profile.

This only applies when you’re dating someone you met on an online dating site or a dating app. Yes, you believe in love at first sight. But you know better than to date someone just because they’re attractive.

Their profiles probably contain a little description of their personality or, at least, how they see themselves. If you found them a little boring and archived their profile, so you can narrow down your choices, but later decided to give them a chance, that’s okay. But don’t give them a detailed narration of your step by step process when selecting who you want to date. Besides, it’s just not polite.

8) Your dating history.

In this day and age, it’s totally okay to go on as many first dates. The logic behind it is you don’t want to miss out on possibly the love of your life. If the night before, you went out on a date with someone else, your current date doesn’t need to know. Exclusivity is decided upon after a few dates.

9) The state of your life.

First dates are meant to be fun. This isn’t your support group where air out every bit of your dirty laundry for everyone to see. Or even if you met your date in the aforementioned support group, it still isn’t advisable to talk about your life dramas on a date. Moaning about life takes the fun and romance out of dates.

10) How much you’ve enjoyed their company.

So, the night comes to a close. By now, you’ve probably formed an opinion about your date. If you want to see them again, it’s because you’ve enjoyed the time you’ve spent with them. If you can’t wait to leave that place, it’s because they’re just not the type you’re looking for.

And there’s nothing wrong about that. However, that’s still not a license to tell them that you’ve had the absolute worst time. Politeness can go a long way. Who knows? You might meet them again under different circumstances.

Try your best to stick to this list when thinking about what and what not to say on your date. If you lie, don’t forget to come clean at an appropriate time.

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6 Signs She’s About to Say “I Love You”

December 7, 2016 by
Slavic Beauty

Ukrainian women, their bodies are oozing with stunning Slavic beauty, their skin radiates with optimism of a summer-like intensity, and their hearts simmer with passion and wisdom that can thaw a man’s heart that has been trapped in an eternal winter.

In spite of the ugly affairs that have caused the rest of the world to pay attention to this beautiful country, Ukrainian women remain as beautiful and never run out of love. Men from foreign countries who fly to this Slavic country, drawn by the promise of finding romance, are a testament to the attractive characteristics of Ukrainian ladies, which are unmatched by girls from different parts of the globe. One British media outlet has taken note of these characteristics, writing that Ukrainian women conquer the hearts of a million men, thanks to their spirituality and values, in addition to their captivating beauty.

But if there is one thing that Ukrainian women share with other girls, it’s their playfulness when it comes to the game of love. Does she love? Does she love you not? If she hasn’t said it yet, here are six signs she’s about to say “I love you.”

1) Her body speaks a different language when you’re around.

“Actions speak louder than words.” “The eyes are the window to the soul.” “Hips don’t lie.” These may be clichés, but the thing about clichés is that they’re anchored in truth. Love Signal author and anthropologist David Givens says that in everyday situations, communication is sixty to ninety per cent nonverbal. However, when romance is thrown into the mix, the number rises to ninety-nine per cent.

While nonverbal cues can be a little tough to decode, it’s worth the effort. When you talk to her, does she lock her gaze deep into your eyes? Does she blink as if she were convincing herself that she’s not dreaming? Is her voice softer and her pitch higher compared to when she’s talking to her friends? Is her smile as warm as your morning coffee?

If you can answer these questions with a “yes,” you’re in luck. She’s just one nudge away from saying “I love you.”

2) She pours her attention on you.

In a room full of men, if she turns her back on all of them just so she can see more of your face, then you are definitely the man whom she has set her eyes on. However, it’s much more than that. Women are legendary when it comes to their attention to detail. The reason she focuses on you is because she’s studying you. She wants to memorize what ticks you, your likes and dislikes, et cetera.

It’s easy to mistake her action for mere curiosity. But if she remembers a story you shared to her two months ago, what you wore on your first date, or what your favorite desert is, it only means that you have become more than just the object of her curiosity.

3) She makes time for you.

Women these days are busier than ever. They are no longer the same women from a century ago. They pursue higher education just like men do and work just as much as men do. One obvious advantage of this change is that conversations become more interesting and fulfilling. Unfortunately, this also means that, just like men, women may not have as much time on their hands.

But if she loves you and is ready to make the commitment, she will make time for you just as you make time for her. If you ask her out to have lunch with you on a weekday, chances are she might not give you the most encouraging answer because of her swamped schedule. But she will make it up to you. On the weekend, instead of sleeping in, she will invite you to her place and cook your favorite for you. The secret ingredient, of course, is love.

4) She goes out of her way for you.

If the woman of your dreams could move heaven and earth for you, she would. That’s another sign that she’s about to verbalize her feelings for you. She might not be so stellar in the kitchen. There’s nothing wrong with that. But she will call her mother or search the Internet for a recipe, so she can make your favorite dessert, making your dates more special than if you dine at a restaurant.

It doesn’t just stop there. She will cancel her appointments. She will watch sports with you instead of shopping. She will be there for you. You can count on it.

5) She isn’t happy when you’re in the presence of other women.

Women are infamous for their burning passion. Among their wide range of emotions is jealousy. Jealousy can be good depending on the circumstance. If she displays this emotion when girls are flocking to you like bees to a flower, jealousy is absolutely a good thing.

She might not admit to it because she’s afraid she will come off like some possessive vixen. But the message jealousy brings with it is clear: She wants you and she wants you to want her.

6) She wants you to meet her family.

So, she has introduced you to her friends. And all of them have given you glowing reviews. The next step is introducing you to her family. Why? Because Ukrainian tradition is deeply ingrained in Ukrainian women. Come what may, they love their parents, and respecting them is one way of expressing this love. She wants to know if her parents and the rest of her family will approve of you.

Show her family all the reasons she has fallen in love with you. That surely will earn you their approval. On that day, just before you leave her parents’ home, she might kiss you and finally say those three words you are dying to hear.

Sometimes, however, the only reason that she hasn’t said “I love you” yet is simple. She’s waiting for you to say it first. So, muster enough courage to express your heart’s content to her. Who knows? She’s also probably looking for signs you’re about to say “I love you.”

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Flirting with Girls Over Chat – Do You Know These Five Tips?

December 6, 2016 by
flirting with girls over chat

It won’t be a stretch to say that men these days have it easier. In the flirting department, that is. Gone were the days of boys walking up to pretty ladies and striking a conversation in spite having no prior knowledge of their interests and pet peeves. Such scenarios can be a little heartbreaking, particularly when you’re the shy type who gets tongue tied when the girl you fancy is only several inches away from you.

Some guys are at their best when they are expressing their thoughts and emotions on paper. In typical old Hollywood fashion, love letters are handwritten. Receiving handwritten notes these days are still adorable as long as the guy’s penmanship is intelligible. But love letters require more effort than normal from both parties. Barely anyone writes longhand. However, the struggle to compose romantic and meaningful letters remains the same. The story becomes more tragic when the lady simply has no time to read your letter and write a reply.

If you’re in school or work in an office, you can ask the person beside you and the person seated next to them to pass a short yet sweet note to your lady. There is also the added thrill of seeing their reaction, an instant gratification. But we rarely find ourselves in ideal situations like this. Other than that, it can be problematic because passing notes tend to distract people from either their studies or work.

Modern technology has blessed us with the ability to communicate instantly no matter the distance that sets lovers apart. Guys can chat up girls over Facebook, Skype, and other messaging platforms. Dating apps also provide guys the opportunity to meet girls outside the perimeter of their work place.

But do guys these days truly have it easier? In some ways, yes. But the truth is flirting with girls who are not in front of you has its own challenges. These challenges, though, are not devoid of fun and excitement that characterize the old way of flirting.

So, you are flirting with girls over chat. Do you know these five tips?

1) Commence flirting with a playful joke.

Back in the days, a written greeting mostly began with either “dear” or “my.” That’s just how they rolled. These days, however, girls might actually get turned off when you prefix their names with those words, especially if she is a girl you have known for only a few hours.

Instead of mimicking your granddad’s flirtation techniques, open a conversation with a playful joke. Let’s say you met this girl online. Take a closer look at her profile picture and look for details in the background that can you can use as material for a joke, which will later elicit a laugh from her.

Remind yourself who you are sharing this joke with. Raunchy jokes are fine when your friends are the audience. Go for a lighter joke when flirting with a girl to avoid offending her or, worse, scaring her away.

2) Shower her with compliments.

This is one of the most important bullet points not just in Flirting 101, but when dealing with girls. Ladies put a lot of effort toward looking pretty. Some do it to attract men and some do it solely for themselves.

When flirting, prevent yourself from going overboard with the compliments. They must still feel genuine. Otherwise, the girl you are interested in will only feel like you’re making fun of her or that you’re borrowing a line from a flirting manual, one that you have used with dozens of girls before.

Again, take some time to look at her profile. What are her interests? What is she doing in her picture? Say something as simple as your appreciation of her taste in music opens up opportunities to get to know her better.

Limit yourself when it comes to compliments, though. A few here and there seem sincere, but inserting a compliment between every sentence seems ridiculously fake.

3) Take advantage of emojis.

Flirting with girls over chat allows you more time to think about what you say. Nothing is final until you press the send key. This allows you to revise or even entirely change your message.

The downside of flirting this way is there is a higher risk of miscommunication. A playful remark can come off as an insult while a sincere thought can be interpreted as a polite gesture.

Emojis are the solution to this problem. Send her a smiley when you say hi. Add an emoji with its tongue sticking out when something funny is told. Use a heart emoji when you tell her something sweet. There are many more emojis to express emotions and facial expression that are nearly impossible to be translated into words.

Keep in mind, however, that purely emojis are not an unacceptable way to communicate. When flirting with girls over chat, strive to strike a balance between words and emojis.

4) Think of a nickname for her.

Referring to a girl by her given name is the flirting equivalent of referring to a business partner using their last name. Whether her name has five syllables or one, giving her a nickname is sometimes what is needed to take things up a notch.

Nicknames create a sense of intimacy. Your family gave you cutesy nicknames while your friends have branded you with maybe inappropriate ones. And you have thought up nicknames for them, as well. No matter what, such nicknames suggest a deep bond between people, and that kind of bond is what you must strive for when flirting with a girl.

“Honey,” “darling,” “sweetheart,” and “babe” are fine. But, to be honest, they are a little too overused. Fire up your creative side and come up with something original, something she will appreciate and remember. If the apple of your eyes’ name is Michelle, you can call her Misha or Chelle. If she’s an Anna, your choice of nickname ranges from the simple Ann to the edgy Annakin. Don’t be afraid to test a few nicknames to see which one will become her favorite.

5) Express genuine interest in her life.

This one can be a bit tricky. Ask her too few questions and she might think that you have no absolute interest in her and are only asking out of politeness. Ask her too many questions and you run the risk of giving her stalker vibes.

When you have just started flirting with a girl, textbook questions like her favorite movie or how she likes her coffee can go a long way. Eventually, when you are talking and flirting regularly, ask her about her day. This particular question serves as good starting point for a meaningful conversation for as long as you pay attention to what she says. Go beyond telling her that you’re sorry that her day couldn’t be as beautiful as she is. Relate to her, tell her what you think, but be careful about monopolizing the conversation. Let her talk for as long as she desires. This is how you begin to gain her trust.

Flirting with girls over chat can have different outcomes. Some last an eternity, some end after the second conversation. When you and your girl have established an emotional connection, it’s time to ask her out on a date.

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Dating Tips to Make a Ukrainian Girl Fall For You

December 4, 2016 by
Dating Tips with a Ukrainian Girl

You should keep in mind that women from Ukraine cannot be blinded by your wealth or fame. The only way for you to steal their hearts, is to generally be kind, sensitive and full of respect. In their country, the contemporary society has thoroughly changed the perception about women. The modern times require these ladies to adapt to the changes that is happening in their nation and beyond, therefore, Ukrainian women are taught to reconsider the role that they play in their society. This is the reason why a large portion of women in Ukraine are successful business persons, presidents of huge industries and sits in position with governmental organizations.

Without a doubt, mature men who are looking for a more stable life in the future starts by selecting the right woman to spend his whole life with. This stage in a man’s life is very vital because it will dictate what he is to be when he settles down and have his own family. Today, a lot of men find true love beyond the borders of their own countries, and women from Ukraine are in the top most list of those perfect to be dating.

These women are considered to be the most beautiful women on the planet. They are family-oriented and full of love and adventure. This is proven by the  fact that men from other countries who visit Ukraine gets startled by how women in the region looks like.

Lucky enough for you, you must be reading this article because you are interested with a Ukrainian woman you might have met online, or during your trip to Ukraine. That is why, we have gathered expert dating tips you could probably practice to make a Ukrainian woman fall for your charm.

  1. Insist, don’t ask.

Ukrainian women aren’t big fans of questions. While it may sound a little creepy to insist more than ask, do know that Ukrainian women believe that being a man and having this reflected in your character is the most important description of the person they would love to date. As a part of Slavic traditions, men who insist are viewed to be assertive, meaning, their behavior are insistent yet respectful. You should be able to show her this type of attitude so she would fall head over heels for you. Instead of asking her out for dinner, let her know your intentions of pursuing a deeper relationship by insisting that you two should go out on a date. Being insistent with Ukrainian women is proven to be effective in winning your date’s heart.

  1. Be Light, Laugh.

While culture differ from one compared to the other, so does humor. The sense of humor of people from the US is way lot different from people in Ukraine. You should remember that Ukrainian jokes are usually light irony, made up of sarcasm and witty wordplay. Sounds smart, right? But this doesn’t mean you won’t be able to hear her laugh with your own jokes. You should start with a funny story just to break the ice and perhaps, you will soon have your personal jokes to share with each other!

  1. Never Show No Interest in the Culture

The first mistake a lot of men may have committed while dating a Ukrainian woman is that they show no interest with the Ukrainian culture. You should at least be able to locate where Ukraine is in a map, because this simple gesture will surely impress her! No matter where you are from, or where your date is from, you should always show interest with the cultural background of the person you are dating. You need not to be fluent with their native language, rather, you should be equipped with a few facts about their history and you’re all good.

  1. Impress Her with Love, Not Money

A lot of people from around the world believe that women from Ukraine are gold diggers. This stereotype causes men to be afraid to date Ukrainian women, and it also gives them a reason to scare a lot of good Ukrainian women away. While it is true that some women are after the money, you should also consider those who are not. Most women in Ukraine are independent and possess the capability to earn their own money. These women simply does not need any financial benefits from you. You need to impress Ukrainian women with love and sincerity, because money is no biggie. Invest on love and not money, despite what might be expected, Ukrainian young ladies put appreciate sentimental things more than what has monetary values.  They like it when their men demonstrate courage and sincerity. You need to try and do these things for her, help her take off and wear her jacket, move her seat and bring her blooms. You will be surprised by how much she’ll be happy for this! While picking an area for your date, you should also remember that romantic places works the best.

  1. Let Trust Be The Foundation of Your Relationship

The Internet will show you a lot of stories about how Ukrainian women run away with the money of men they met online. These articles will motivate you not to date anyone from Ukraine but you’ll surely be missing out a lot if you do. The best way to win a Ukrainian women’s heart is to trust her. The way to find true love with a Ukrainian woman is simply by trusting her. Do not be shy and show her who you are, your characteristics and soon, your deepest darkest secrets because believe it or not, if there is one single person in the world who will not judge you for your flaws, these are the women from Ukraine. Ukrainian women are naturally kind-hearted, so if someone honest and open, you should be able to win a Ukrainian woman’s heart.


With all these tips given for your advantage, you should also keep in mind that the best dating tip to win a Ukrainian woman’s heart is to be yourself. Show sincerity and respect, in that way, your potential future partner won’t be scared of you even if you just met online.

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