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7 BIGGEST MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN MEETING AN ONLINE DATE

June 15, 2018 by

Online dating is one of the best ways for men meeting women.  In order to be successful at online dating, however, you need to avoid these seven key mistakes when you meet someone for the very first time.

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  1. BEING IN FANTASY LAND

When you’re going to have your first one-and-one meeting with a lady you met online, the first thing you need to do is to get the fantasy of that person out of your head. Many times women write the fantasy version of themselves in their profile. They write what they want to be or who they think they might be, and not who they really are.  So the first thing to do when you meet an online date in person is to look past the profile, and really just get to know your partner.

  1. JUST TAKE IT EASY

People tend to get too nervous when meeting someone for a date and by that, they end up sabotaging it. Think of it as an opportunity to meet someone new, just like you would meet a friend for coffee, and nothing more.  Getting to know her might make you feel nervous, but nevertheless, you should try to calm down and enjoy your date. So, your judgment is not clouded by your emotions and you can make a clear impression of the date.

3. Making it all about them.

Another mistake so many men make when meeting online dates in person for the first time is focusing on what that the lady thinks of him. Stop worrying about this.

What happens when you do that is instead of thinking you had a great time and a chance to meet someone new, you go home and analyze that one thing you said.

The truth is you never know what someone else is thinking unless you ask them. This leads right into the next mistake.

  1. Not being in the moment.

A lot of people never stay in the moment and they spend the whole date wondering whether that other person likes them. You will end up spending the entire date worrying about what a woman thinks about you, and you will forget to enjoy the date. This is a thing you want to avoid, try thinking that you are out with a friend, and really try to get to know the lady better. If all goes well during your first date and you are really excited about her, ask her out on a second one. You have nothing to lose.

  1. MADE-UP RELATIONSHIPS

After you’ve finally decided to go out with this person, after all the communication you have had, you might get a little too excited when you go out. You might even think to yourself, “This is the person for me. I can tell. I can feel it.” Wrong, if you think like this on a first date you will surely find yourself disappointed because you’re not going to enjoy the date or get to know her, which is actually the whole point of a first date. By eliminating those expectations and thoughts that this person is your potential soul mate, and by just going on the date to get to know that person better, you are giving the meeting a chance to succeed.

 

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THE ADVANTAGE OF A RELATIONSHIP THAT STARTS ONLINE

June 8, 2018 by

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Scientists think the relationship that starts online may have a huge advantage over relationships that start in real life. A new paper suggests partners who meet online are more likely to be companionable than those who meet in person.

However, the research doesn’t prove that online dating causes relationships to be stronger. May be that people who register for dating services are actually more interested in a relationship.

Nevertheless, telling people you and your partner met online can seem boring.

Many people believe that long-distance relationship is never going to work out. Your family may discourage it and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, just in case you get your heart broken. Nobody says it is going to be easy – the extra distance makes many things unachievable. Things may be difficult, and you could get sad and lonely at times.

Wouldn’t you rather be able to share a story about how you were both reading the same novels at the local library daily? Or how you had been best friends since kindergarten and that one day something just clicked?

However, the extra distance also makes the simplest things the sweetest, being able to hold the other person’s hand. Eating together at the same table, feeling each other’s touch, taking walks together, smelling each other’s hair…these small wishes could suddenly mean so much more in a long-distance relationship.

Just a few decades ago, if you were in a long-distance relationship and wanted to talk to another person. The only way to do so was to make a call using a phone that connects to a landline and you had to deal with time differences also. But thanks to the technology of today, there are countless ways to stay and feel connected to your partner when you are navigating a long-distance relationship. From tagging each other in funny memes on Instagram to sending photos, texts, FaceTiming and the list go on. There’s no shortage of platforms and opportunities to be in touch.

Furthermore, people in long-distance relationships are more likely to share meaningful thoughts and feelings with their partners than those who were not.

Why do people try a long-distance relationship?

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Rarely people get themselves into long-distance relationships on purpose. Typically, what ends up happening is that couples become a victim of circumstance, where one partner finds themselves needing to relocate. Another way that long-distance relationships get facilitated is when one person ends up spending a lot of time in a different state. Also, a city for either work or leisure and forms a connection with someone there. Usually, both partners know that distance will be a factor they have to deal with before starting the relationship.

Here is some vital advice for couples to assist with a long-distance relationship.

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THE CELEBRATION OF TRINITY IN UKRAINE

May 25, 2018 by

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What is Trinity in Ukraine?

The Feast of Triytsya, (Trinity Sunday), which commemorates the Descent of the Holy Spirit upon the Apostles (Pentecost) falls on the seventh Sunday after Easter. In English, it is also called Whitsunday and in Ukrainian, it is known as Pyatydesyatnytsya. Holy Trinity Day is a very important religious holiday in Ukraine.

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Trinity is a moveable feast celebrating the Holy Trinity, the Christian belief that the nature of God exists as Three Persons – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, but yet One God.

Trinity is a kind of symbol of the return to life. On the time of this wonderful holiday, all nature comes to life, blooms and fills up with bright colors and alluring scents. On this day, all Orthodox people decorate their houses with greenery, birch twigs with calamus branches, prepare a festive table and invite relatives to come over for a celebration.

The celebration of Trinity in Ukraine is a big event with many people going to church and following traditional rituals. Join them in this celebration or just enjoy the “green” side of this wonderful feast!

Didova subota

The day before Triytsya, that is Saturday, called Didova subota, the day of the commemoration of the dead. According to a popular belief, deceased people come to our world on the Green Thursday and stay here until the Troyitsky Thursday. That’s why it was prohibited to work during these days, especially to weave, sew or to cut wood. In order not to make any harm to the dead souls. That’s why people try to do all work in the garden and in the house before the Green Holidays.

There is an awesome tradition with the wreaths. On Green Thursday the ladies went to the forest or to the field to make wreaths. After that, they returned to the village to tie the wreaths to the birch tree. On the Trinity Day, the ladies were checking their wreaths and taking them off the tree. If the wreath remained fresh, it meant the lady’s family would be happy. And if the wreath faded, it was not a good sign and meant the family would be unhappy.

In Ukrainian folk rituals, wreaths, in general, is a symbol of great respect, youth, purity, and beauty.

Also, the wreath made of fresh flowers is considered to be a defense against evil forces. People are going to attend church on Sunday. Monday is usually an official day off in Ukraine, so people may stay with their family, relatives, and friends and have a great time.

God bless all people and make them happy indeed!

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HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN APPRECIATE YOU MORE

May 22, 2018 by

At times a man who has just met a woman wishes to change things about himself so that he does not repeat mistakes he made in previous relationships. Other men, who are in a relationship with a woman, may feel the same and they’d like to know why it seems like she doesn’t appreciate him. From time to time, men may feel unwanted or even undesirable. How do you change this? There are three tips to make a woman appreciate you more.

  1. BE KIND TO YOUR WOMAN

Women love kind men. It’s the truth! Women admire men who can take care of them and who treat them with grace and honor. The truth is that it is easy to be kind. You just need to be a considerate person.

  1. BE ABSOLUTELY GENUINE

And to find people who are 100% true to themselves is rare nowadays. Therefore, too often, people are not really how they demonstrate themselves to be. Eventually, your true self will show and your relationship is likely to crumble. Don’t worry about doing or saying something wrong as no-one is perfect.  Hence, just be yourself. Consequently, in this case, women will value you, not your imaginary character.

  1. MAKE HER LAUGH AND HAVE FUN

Especially relevant, women like men who can entertain them and men who have a good sense of humor will attract women. Don’t be afraid to tell playful stories or something amusing that happened to you. It indicates to the woman that you are not afraid to admit your faults and she will be more relaxed with you.

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Women appreciate men who can make them happy and enjoy good communication.

Nevertheless, just be that man who brings out the best in these women. If you do, your relationship will be that much stronger. However, feel free to read more essential information about how to make your relationship better and stronger.

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ENRICHING YOUR MARRIAGE BY CREATING SHARED MEANING

May 10, 2018 by

The holiday season is rich in symbols and meaning that is both universal and particular to each marriage and family. These symbols and rituals are part of the shared meaning of a marriage and family. Creating shared meaning is the basis of a sound relationship where the important dreams, narratives, myths, and metaphors about our relationship and family find a home.

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Here are four ways that couples can build a stronger relationship with shared meaning:

  1. Creating daily or weekly rituals of connection will enable you to build shared meaning. Carve out time to be together and spend time doing enjoyable activities that bring you both pleasure.
  2. Implementing your shared goals can help you to be a stronger couple with a purpose. Regardless of what your shared vision or goals are, they can strengthen your bond.
  3. Sharing a common dream or vision for life can help you gain a healthy perspective. Creating a larger context of meaning in life can help couples to avoid focusing only on the little things that happen.
  4. Talking about your shared vision can foster attunement. Couples who talk about their hopes and dreams with one another openly are more likely to be happy and less likely to be struggling. Taking time to process your dreams can bring you closer.

Maintaining a Deep Connection to Your Partner

However, while a new relationship is often exciting having a deep and meaningful connection with your partner can infuse your relationship with love. Developing shared meaning over a longer period will sustain a deep connection in your marriage.

Couples who take the time to develop shared meaning and goals are more likely to cultivate intimacy – a hallmark of a matured and lasting love.

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TEN ONLINE DATING DOS AND DON’TS

April 15, 2018 by

During the last several years, online dating has become a very popular activity in the Western world. Online dating has its own set of dos and don’ts and it can be difficult to find out those rules by yourself. You’ve possibly noticed that online dating isn’t exactly like dating in the real life.

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THE 5 DOS OF ONLINE DATING

If you want your online dating experience to be a good one make sure you keep these 5 tips in mind.

1. DATE IN A PUBLIC PLACE.

The person you’re talking to on the other side of your PC, laptop, or cell phone screen may seem honest, but you really have no idea if it is true or not. You don’t know what to expect from a stranger, so it would be more secure to meet up in public place.

2.TAKE SOME MONEY.

Even if you’re a woman, you should be prepared to pay for yourself. Many men believe that the man should always pay for dates and some women will suggest picking up the check if they’ve invited a man.

3. ALWAYS REMEMBER ABOUT HYGIENE

You should constantly keep in mind how you look like your dressing and appearance when you are going on the date. Your chances for the excellent date will extremely increase if you remind this simple note.

4. BE GENTLE IF YOUR DATE DOESN’T JUSTIFY YOUR ASPIRATIONS.

Take some time to know your date much better and you may change your mind. If your date has some pimples on the face or something like that, remember that we are all not perfect. Maybe you also have something that your date may not like. Dedicate time to learn more about your partner and do not overly focus on the imperfections.

5. THANK YOUR DATE FOR THE TIME SPENT

Be kind, even if you haven’t decided whether to continue your communication or not. Some people assume that since they don’t know their online dates very well, that gives them a free pass to just disappear. It’s life, you don’t know what will happen tomorrow and it is always better to make a good impression of yourself.

THE 5 DON’T’S OF ONLINE DATING

While the dos of online dating can ensure that you have a great time during the date, without risking anything after the date, these 5 don’ts can help you enjoy a better dating experience, and make a wonderful first impression.

1. DON’T MEET WITHOUT KNOWING EACH OTHER

Do not waste your time in meetings without any online communication. You should recognize your partner a little to understand if you want to develop your relations in real life or not.

2. DON’T AGREE TO VISIT YOUR PARTNER’S HOME ON THE FIRST DATE

Mostly, you’ll have no idea if your date is trustworthy. Going to your date’s house not only increases the chances of risk but also increases the possibility of something sexual happening.

3. DON’T SEND IMPROPER PICTURES BEFORE THE MEETING

While it’s understandable that some people like to exchange hot pictures, do NOT send such photos to people whom you’re just begun communicating online.

4. DON’T WEAR SUGGESTIVE CLOTHING

Also, while you want to refer your date’s attention to your personality and not to your bare body, you need to wear something more reserved. Suitable clothing won’t distract the attention and your online dating will have more chance of success.

5. DON’T SHOW UP LATE.

It’s extremely irritating to wait for someone who’s not punctual. If you’re late, this shows that you don’t respect your date. In addition, they may think you’re not coming, and leave before you get a chance to meet up.

Well,  follow these 10 online dating dos and don’ts, you’ll have much more chances for a great first date online and avoid the most common mistakes.

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7 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN IN THEIR 50S

April 10, 2018 by

Men ought to know that meeting with a woman at the age of 50 means that you are meeting with a woman who has finished repeating the same mistakes and is ready to finally find her love story.

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Here are seven more things that men should remember about women in their 50s.

SHE CAN LOOK AFTER HERSELF

A woman in her 50’s already known for certain that she doesn’t need relationships to be happy. In her life there are close friends and relatives who don’t let her feel alone. In addition, she knows what to do with her free time as she has a lot of interests and hobbies. So, if a woman is interested in you in her 50’s, you are exactly a special person.

SHE KNOWS FOR SURE

A woman at the age of 50 knows for sure what she wants in life and in relationships. It also means that her choice of partner is more balanced than in her 20’s or 30’s. In addition, she knows how to express her feelings and desires. With a woman in 50, there are no games and guesses at random. On the other hand, she will demand the same from her partner.

SHE DIDN’T LOSE HER ALLURE

In her 50’s, a woman knows the importance of taking care of herself, which includes going in for sports, eating well, etc. In any case, her age gives her confidence that positively affects her appearance.

SHE FORGETS ABOUT HER BIOLOGICAL CLOCK

Most likely, a woman at the age of 50 already has adult children who no longer need constant care. She can devote more and more time to herself, her interests and her personal life. You have nowhere to hurry and your relationship can develop gradually and easily.

SHE CAN BE A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST

No more inconvenience, a woman at the age of 50 knows not only how to conduct a conversation, but also knows how to manage it. A lady will give you an opportunity to talk about yourself, and leave enough time to tell about herself too. A woman is not afraid to be vulnerable and laugh at herself.

SHE HAS MOVED ON FROM HER PAST

A woman who meets at her 50’s does not want to have anything in common with her past. She is not going to recall past grievances or regrets, and she is mature enough to prevent negative feedbacks about her or your ex. The lady intends to move forward.

SHE KNOWS WHAT HAPPINESS IS

A lady is no longer riddled with anxiety and insecurity, as she was in her 20s and 30s. She values life for everything, including ups and downs, and seeks to make the most of the time she has.

A woman opens up with age and becomes only more attractive. If you happen to meet such a woman, do not miss your chance to get to know her better.

Please, read this essential article to get more advice.

 

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Free Speed Dating Events – Now Available

April 9, 2018 by

Ukraine Brides Agency is pleased to launch its unique new Speed Dating feature, offering free video and audio chat to all online members.

The recent upgrade to our video chat system means that all members can text chat, or video and audio chat from Any Device, Anywhere and Anytime. You don’t even need to download an app – just login to the site and start chatting.

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We will be offering the free Speed Dating events and all serious members will be able to take advantage of this unique feature.

To qualify for this feature, just complete your profile to over 90%, including photos. In fairness to the ladies who will also be using this feature, they want to be able to see your profile and know a little about you before accepting your free request to chat.

Login to your profile now and you will see the percentage completed. Just add some photos or add a little more information and be ready for our free Speed Dating events. We will announce the day and time for each of these events leading up to the day.

Speed Dating Event

This is a feature that is unique to Ukraine Brides Agency and demonstrates our commitment to offer you a superior service and experience.

Please contact us at any time if you require any assistance – we are available 24/7 and will be delighted to hear from you.

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HOW MUCH INFORMATION SHOULD YOU SHARE ON YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE

April 6, 2018 by

Dating requires lots of thinking… There are millions of online profiles, but dating profiles are especially unique and you should understand the unique purpose of dating profiles. How much information should you share on your online dating profile?

Give them a little sneak peek of who you are but nothing more.

Certain information is a given on most dating sites. Age, career, and interests are pretty general topics that make up the bulk of a profile. It is safe to go into a bit of detail here, but you should keep it general.

Be Safe!

You should recognize that the people who are going to be reading your profile are complete strangers.Better write about your career, but do not mention where you work specifically. You can write about where you are from, but do not (ever) write out your contact details or home address.

Do Not Overshare!

Don’t mention past relationships. Sharing stories of past relationships in your dating profile is a quick way to turn potential dates away. Your profile should intrigue people, make them want to learn more about you, not make them wonder why they are reading your profile in the first place.

Do not go making sweeping statements about things you hate. Sharing your dislikes is not really something you should advertise, and also, you do not want any negativity on your profile. But also, you should not go too specific on your list of wants.

Your dating profile should be a short insight into who you are, not a whole story of your life. You should be specific and avoid clichés. Avoid generic statements like “I love sunsets and kittens.” Talk about specific things you do like. For example, you can share your favorite activities and why you like them so much, but do not write everyone how you first got into them. These little snippets of information about you are going to provide lots of talking points for potential dates on a chat site.

You should post great photos consistent with your profile. People go to photos first. You can find some useful tip on how to make your profile picture to stand out here.

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WAYS TO MAKE SURE THAT YOU HAVE THE BEST PROFILE PICTURE

March 30, 2018 by

Nowadays almost every person is using the Internet. All of us have the profile on different social networks. And all these duckface selfies, cartoon filters or gym pics will not actually attract much attention. So how do you make sure you show people who you really are? By choosing the best profile picture.

In the world of online dating, it is even more important to have the best profile photo. There you have a little time frame to make a good impression.

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So here are some tips for taking, choosing and editing the best dating profile picture.

Show your natural smile.

A photo with a real, genuine smile attracts people more. It is an attractive facial expression because it displays true happiness.

Men: Look away and show your abs.

Profile pictures trend better for men when they are unsmiling and looking away from the camera.

Women: Wear red.

Women, don’t underestimate a red dress — potential suitors love when women wear red. And also it is better to look straight at the camera.

Take photos at the optimal time.

People who take their best photos during the late-night and late-afternoon hours get more attention. This could be because late-night photos tend to be sensual, and late-afternoon photos are perfectly lit when the light is soft.

Avoid group shots.

People who use group shots on their dating profile — especially as their lead image — tend to receive fewer messages.

Show off your adventures.

Photos that receive the most likes are shot candidly or show you participating in sports. But you should avoid beach photos, though.

You should be creative.

Black-and-white photos receive more likes than their original color counterparts.

Add more photos.

The more photos you add — the more incoming messages you receive. Daters who have four or more photos on their profiles receive the most incoming messages.

Also, do not post pictures hiding behind sunglasses.

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