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Dating advice

JAMES (THE USA) – SVETLANA (UKRAINE) – JANUARY 2019

January 7, 2019 by

Here we come into 2019 with great news and a new happy couple. 2018 brought us the greatest achievements and results so that January cheers us up as well. And it is just the beginning.

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Please, congratulate us with our new lovely couple of James and Svetlana.

Svetlana’s and James’s love story

Their story is about the mutual interest at first sight! James was the only man with whom Svetlana communicated on ukrainebridesagency.com

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She could not speak English a year ago and she used the interpreter’s help at the beginning. Then she attended English courses and private lessons. She practices English daily for her man. Svetlana has improved her knowledge, can converse with James.

Their relationship started about a year ago with nice letters and then video chats. Communication is the key and the bridge between people whilst they are on the distance! There is more than 10,000 km between Pasadena and Melitopol but that is not the obstacle for real feelings at all! James visited Ukraine 5 times. Svetlana introduced James to her family and friends. He said that it was an unforgettable experience for him with tasty food, arm-wrestling, pranks, dances and lots of fun. He fell in love with Svetlana and Ukraine! Now the couple is waiting for Svetlana’s K1 visa and documents for her son to travel to America.

We wish love for this beautiful couple, happiness and long years together!

May Lord bless this beautiful couple with love, happiness and long years together of life together.

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BLAIR (HAMILTON, NEW ZEALAND) – NOVEMBER 2018

December 12, 2018 by

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Last month, Blair from New Zealand called into our office to say hello again; Blair had previously visited us in 2017 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qysjm1F9550

Blair visited Kiev, Poltava, Zaporozhye, and Nikolaev. He thoroughly enjoyed his trip and his travel was problem free as he used our travel services to support him throughout his trip.

BLAIR’S ADVICE TO THE OTHER MEMBERS

Most relevant to our members, Blair recommends that men are serious about their search. He points out it is important, to be honest with your partner about everything; honesty is a priority. A couple should discuss the smallest things and make sure they understand each other. Do not play games if you are looking for a wife. You must remain patient and take time into consideration.

Blair said a number of times that chemistry is something that makes your meeting magnificent. You should not rush and consider all the pros and cons. You should go through the process carefully, with meticulous planning.

Above all, Blair recommends men to use the service of interpreters when they are going on meetings with the ladies. He thinks interpreters are “brilliant”.

BLAIR’S IMPRESSION ABOUT UKRAINE

Ukraine is totally different from his country he comes from. He likes the Ukraine people and found them all to be very cheerful to him.

We thank Blair for his feedback and advice and recommend that all members take note of his comments.

We were delighted to see Blair again and look forward to his next visit. He is appreciative of our 24/7 support – he finds us professional.

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3 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF AFTER 3 MONTHS OF DATING

November 30, 2018 by

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Everyone wants to find a good partner and be happy. We all are looking for something that will give us energy and inspiration, and motivation! What is that? Yes, that is LOVE. Only this feeling completes us as human beings. While dating you realize how important this person is, how much time you are ready to spend with this person and do you want to see him/her tomorrow again.

You never know the last time you will see a place or a person. That is why it is so important to be careful with your feelings, emotions, and behavior. Every person is unique and every relationship seems to be a separate planet with two bellowed hearts. A perfect relationship does not exist and this is what is called R E A L I T Y. Be ready for 3 questions to ask yourself after 3 months of dating.

Question 1: Does what do make with your partner make you happy?

This question involves too many other little questions. Such like “Do you go out a lot? Do you go out to drink some coffee and listen to live music while walking and holding each other hands?”

They may seem trivial to you at first, but they will have a great significance when you start to think about the other two questions later on. Furthermore, you also have to ask what you are doing when you are on your own.

Question 2: How do you feel about you and your partner?

Once you know what your current lifestyle is like, the next step is to question your feelings for your partner. Here you start asking yourself what are the aspects that you like about your partner. What are the aspects that you do not like about your partner? What are the sensations that you feel when you are or are not around your other half? To avoid over-thinking about the connection and getting into a mild anxiety attack, you just need to establish what ground you are standing on, as well, as the ground that your partner is on too.

Question 3: What do you in your relationship in the next three months?

Here you should realize whether you indeed want to continue the relationship with this person or not. Even if you feel like you want to spend a big part of your life with your partner, it is important that you have a discussion with him or her about the romance and relationship.

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HOW TO BE A GOOD BOYFRIEND

October 24, 2018 by

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All of you want to be the best man for your lady.

So we collected some tips to help you to become the best boyfriend you can be.

  1. The first thing to do is to figure out what you want in a girlfriend and relationship. It’s important to think about it. Usually you want to find someone who enjoys the same things you do. But at the same time you can’t make someone like what you like, and it isn’t going to make you a good boyfriend. And it’s totally OK to have different likes and hobbies. You can learn from each other, and it can give you some time to do your activity on your own.
  2. The next thing to do is to learn how to communicate effectively. The ability to communicate effectively is a skill that needs to be practiced. Many guys struggle with what to say and how to say it and this is totally OK. But if you really shy and don’t practice, you’re never going to get good at it. Talking about how you feel is never a weakness and is relevant a huge strength. Girls love it when you can express what you are thinking or feeling.
  3. You should keep it simple. Things like carrying her bag, doing some little work at home, or even taking out the trash. These small gestures constantly reaffirm your feelings for her. Ask her how her day was. Offer to help her with something. Small things you do for her will keep gently fanning the flame of love.
  4. You should be a master of compromises. Compromise is one thing a lot of couples struggle with. Sometimes, if you want to be a good boyfriend, ask her what she’d love to do, to watch or etc., if she could pick anything, and be ready to say yes to whatever it is. You’ll surprise her by agreeing and become the best boyfriend in the world.
  5. The next advice is to respect her online presence. Once you guys are dating, it’s totally cool to check out and interact with all of her social media accounts. Don’t comment on everything she posts. Don’t challenge or argue with any of her contacts. What you should do is make sure you like some things she posts, especially the stuff she’s proud of.
  6. And last but not least is to understand that time away from each other is a good thing. Many times in that first flush of love, you want to spend every minute with the object of your lady. But a bit later, it’s important to have some time away from each other. Spending time apart is a great way to miss each other, develop positive feelings of looking forward to seeing each other again, and allows you to talk to each other about what you did when you were apart.

Learning how to be, a good boyfriend, eventually fiancé, and then husband is a lifelong journey.

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HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR WOMAN

October 16, 2018 by

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Woman is such a unique creature. Male psychology is not arranged like a woman’s one, that is why gentlemen hardly understand what their women want. Wise advice of experts will open the veil of the female soul and teach you to understand the desires of women:

The contradictory nature of women’s words and actions often catches men by surprise. She had just been in a fine mood, calmly reasoned about the essential things, and only half an hour later turned into a capricious child, provoking a quarrel. The correct way to understand the reason for a sharp change in mood is to ask directly. Ask what has caused her dissatisfaction, and discuss the problem.

Uncertainty in the future is a cross on relations. Women are concerned about the future. They want to be sure that the man will provide for the family, cope with the role of the father. The psychology of relations between a man and a woman is built around a family hearth. Show yourself as a getter, an exemplary family man, a caring husband, and the bride or wife will not have cause for concern.

Points of view of a woman. Do not lock the chosen one on four walls

Modern women do not tend to turn into housewives and limit themselves to the role of a wife preparing dinner, washing clothes and watching the house. They have many opportunities for self-fulfilment and a successful career. Do not force the chosen one to sit at home all day and wait for your return. Otherwise, it will lead to the fact that she will dream of another, in her opinion, a better life, and your relationship will deteriorate.

Speak and know how to listen. The beautiful half of humanity depends on the so-called chatter. Conversations are an integral part of their life, an opportunity to establish contact and understand another person. Talk with your beloved as often as possible.

Hence, stop tossing socks and collecting dirty cups. Crumbs on the table, thrown on the floor stale T-shirt – these are potential provocateurs of the conflict. Men think that disorder is not a reason for quarrels. However, ladies look at the problem differently. They perceive this as a disregard for the efforts to create cosiness in the house and to their personality.

Nevertheless, praise the chosen ones. Do not skimp on compliments. Your stories about the past day and deeds will be much more interesting if they are preceded by a praise of a hairstyle or appearance.

Be patient. Sometimes women’s moods are a test of your nerves for strength. In such a way ladies try to find out how serious your feelings and intentions are.

However, it is not difficult to understand a woman. Love and respect her. Surround the chosen one with care and tenderness, treat with patience and understanding for small weaknesses, pay as much attention as possible, and no conflicts will be terrible for you.

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SHARDORN (NYON, SWITZERLAND) – MARIYA (KIEV, UKRAINE) – OCTOBER 2018

October 11, 2018 by

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We have wonderful news for you. Our new happy couple Shardorn and Mariya recently got married. They were working on the development of their relationship hard. Both of them knew that our site is for serious people not to play games. They had a right mindset and were looking for each other.

Their story

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A couple considers video chat to be the most logical way to keep in touch and discuss all the questions they have. Mariya says a video chat helps people to discover the nature of their characters and see the real behavior. They chatted for 2 weeks and Shardorn decided to come over and meet up with his lady Mariya. This is a serious step of a purposeful man who knows what he wants.

A real meeting approved all the expectations as the couple was considering all pros and cons about each other whilst having video chats. Shardorn is rather thankful to UBA as we provided a real platform for his communication with his wife Mariya.

We wish this lovely couple happiness and prosperity in their relationship. Such a beautiful union deserves all the best. They are a great example of purposeful people who did not hesitate but used the time in the best way to complete their life goal. The new chapter in their life was opened and we are sure it will be full of happiness.

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TIM (NEW JERSEY, THE USA) – SEPTEMBER 2018

October 3, 2018 by

The last weekend of September seemed to be an amazing one with a beautiful weather and lovely feedbacks about our website and services. Our client Tim from New Jersey, The USA has visited Ukraine. Tim feels very cosy over here.  He is so happy he joined the site. By the way, we were so happy to know that our client was very comfortable with our service, agency, and staff.

TIM’S IMPRESSION ABOUT UBA SERVICES

Tim is happy with our services. He recommends men not to hesitate and contact UBA anytime. We were pleased to talk to Tim on Skype and advise him. The client recommends our services to the men as he finds that to be really genuine. Above all, Tim would like to advise men to go out for a date with ladies. Tim considers one-on-one meeting the best option to learn the real behavior of a lady. He thinks sitting at the table in front of each other gives all the prospect to the light of a possible chemistry.

TIM’S ADVICE TO THE OTHER CLIENTS

Most relevant, Tim recommends men who use the services of our site to be serious about the age gap. It is rather important to consider it. People with a large age gap are literally from different generations. There is such a big cultural difference. Looking for a woman for marriage – a man has to be careful with everything.

Tim ensures you have to be ready to have a plan B. We all have an idea how it should work and how it should be, but then life happens (laughing) and you find out what the reality is.

Please, watch the video of Tim’s feedback and accept his all recommendations.

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RELATIONSHIP ISSUES: HOW TO SEEK FORGIVENESS

September 23, 2018 by

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A relationship is what we need in our life. Sometimes we can accidentally offend our loved ones. It happens without any intent, but reconciliation does not come. And it seems that a common language and forgiveness will never be found. The reconciliation process can be quite simple if you know its subtleties and learn how to seek forgiveness.

Does a relationship always have perfect sides?

Relationship No matter how strong the offence inflicted on a loved one, you can always seek forgiveness. But, before you receive forgiveness, it is necessary to analyze all your actions which led to the appearance of resentment and to prevent a repeat of the situation.

However, after analyzing what happened to cause the conflict and considering both sides, sometimes a person doesn’t believe they are guilty and does not want to apologize. In that case, there is no sense to seek reconciliation.
If you firmly believe yourself to be the culprit of the offence, and if the apology is unavoidable, then the right approach is necessary. Scientists have evidence that the offence can be forgiven after five tries.

Having fallen in love with someone, we become vulnerable before this person, trusting and fully revealing before our loved one. And if this person brings us an unconscious or willful offence, we perceive this as a betrayal and a loss of our security. To correct the situation and restore confidence, a period of time is required. And with a strong resentment, the offended person may want to make sure of the honesty of your words.
According to psychologists, in complicated situations, reconciliation must be gradual. During the first meeting or conversation after all the events, it is necessary to offer sincere apologies and admit your guilt. After all, if the conflict situation was very recent then any arguments about the quarrel can cause anger and lead to an even greater scandal.

On the second date, you need to apologize again. You can tell about your experience and that you have understood that your words and actions were wrong.
At the third conversation, you need to be more reserved, let the other person speak. For the fourth time, you can tell about the motive of your action, which pushed you to it. The fifth conversation must begin with a sincere regret and once again admit your mistakes.

When the offence is inflicted on a loved one who is very important for you, then be patient as during all of 5 conversations and repentance. You will listen to statements, accusations and reminders about the events. Keep yourself confident and steadfast, because your apologies are sincere. Realizing your mistakes, you will never allow them to recur.

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6 Relationship Rules Every Guy Should Follow

September 21, 2018 by
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Every relationship starts with a “get to know each other” phase. Once you are past that, it’s time for the hard work to start. This is when things will start to become tricky as you both learn more about each other on a deeper level.

If you want a committed relationship to stay strong and happy, you will need to work hard for it. Nothing comes easy, but follow these relationship rules by heart and it will be easier to have a strong and loving relationship with the woman you love.

Support her all through the way

This is an important relationship rule that all men should know. When the girl you are dating is having issues, it doesn’t automatically mean that you have to wear your cape and save her. Sometimes, what women need is just attention, a listening ear and a boyfriend who will support her no matter what decision she is going to make. Men just have to listen through all the rants and show that you are there for her and that you care. You don’t even have to offer her any advice unless she asks you to. Your presence is enough to comfort her.

Create  boundaries

Healthy relationships have boundaries. Being in a committed relationship doesn’t mean that your worlds should revolve around each other. Don’t t lose sight of the other things that mattered in life before you met. Yes, being in a relationship will require spending quality time with your girlfriend but there should be limitations. Set time aside to also spend time with the other people you love and do other things that make you happy. A good relationship should lift you up, not drag you down. Make time for friends and do the activities and hobbies you enjoy. Also, don’t forget to love yourself, too.

Respect both of your differences

One relationship tip that you should remember to make a relationship last is to respect the differences. As a couple, you may share many similarities and common things together, but remember that you’re still two different individuals with two different minds. You have come from two separate backgrounds. with different values, prerogative, and opinions on many things. This is the very reason why learning how to respect differences is very important in any relationship. Learn to respect your partner as a person and as an individual.

Work to resolve issues together

Once boundaries are set, one relationship rule men need to remember is to avoid the blame game. It is normal to go through arguments and disagreements, but you must learn how to react to conflict and solve them together as a team.

Avoid harsh words and pointing blame. Instead, tell her in a calm manner how her certain attitude or behavior makes you feel. Explain how you feel about something and ask that she not to repeat it in the future. This is a good way of reaching a resolution to problems easier.

Build trust

Trust is an important factor in any relationship. Having trust in each other is what a couple needs to have a strong relationship. Establish this trust and be trustworthy in return. Practice honesty in your relationship and do not lie. Don’t keep secrets either. If start feeling doubts toward each other, this could be a bad sign and the relationship could be doomed.

Don’t take her for granted

This is probably the most important relationship rule every guy needs to follow. You put extra effort into getting her, now after months of dating, you’ve become lax and are starting to feel comfortable. You may have started to take her for granted. This isn’t how any man should act in a relationship. If you want the relationship to last, step it up and be consistent with your efforts. Show her you care, make her feel loved and wanted. Continue to find ways to make the relationship exciting. Create new memories with her and create new experiences together. Doing this will strengthen the bond you have and will make the relationship stronger.

A serious relationship that lasts takes a lot of hard work, but it does not have to be difficult. You can follow these rules as a guide to keep your relationship going. If you are single and still looking for a partner, after reading these tips, you will now know how to be a good boyfriend. Also, please don’t forget to visit Ukraine Brides Agency if you want to meet a potential match.

 

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GETTING OVER SHYNESS: HOW TO OVERCOME YOUR ANXIETY AND START A CONVERSATION!

September 5, 2018 by

Are you shy to start a conversation? Many people all over the world suffer from shyness and are struggling to overcome it. If you want to overcome shyness you need to understand the circumstances that trigger your shyness. You should understand that breaking out of your shell doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time, effort, and of course, the desire to change.

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Try to become self-aware

Do not hesitate to start conversation with a lady. You might feel shy all the time or get nervous and quiet in different social situations. So you should analyze what makes you feel this way. Knowing what causes your shyness will help you to overcome it faster.

One of the first steps to overcome your shyness is try to accept your shyness and be comfortable with it. The more you will resist it, longer it will prevail. If you are shy then accept it and embrace it totally.

You should work on your strengths. Try to realize what you’re good at, work on it, try to improve it more. This can help you to become more confident.

Also try to avoid negativity. It is better to have a positive outlook. This will make you less critical of yourself.

Don’t be afraid to talk about yourself. If you find yourself struggling to come up with things to say, share what’s going on in your life.

Showing mutual interest in another person’s life will also help spur a conversation on. With enough practice, a natural conversation will easily develop.

Try to spend more time around people. If you want to become confident, you first need to put yourself out there in order to meet people. Put yourself in different social situations and practice speaking.

You might feel awkward but you should accept it. Remember that becoming confident will take practice. All of these will make it easier and easier to interact.

And last but not the least – be who you really are and express yourself. Stop worrying about what others think. Your self-esteem is the most important way to boost confidence. Don’t force yourself to be comfortable and confident in every situation.

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