Well, there are lots of qualities that everyone wants their partner to have. Some people also care about good looks. For me, looks don't matter as long as he loves me and is understanding, caring and funny! I also want my man to be kind and considerate. Is that greedy? But bear with me. I just can't tolerate hypocrites - those who pretend to be who they are not. They usually have a heart of stone and do not respect or care about others. So, for me, there is nothing more important than kindness. We would also need to share similar values - we can be polar opposites in personality, but shared political or religious views are very important. Last but not least, he definitely needs to have a "can-do" attitude. There's no use spending loads of time with a person who doesn't inspire me and isn't supportive of my dreams.